I met her about a month and a couple of weeks ago & didnt think much of her until we went out. I wasnt sure if she was gay until she mentioned a friend of hers that was in jail who treated her like **** and I feel that we really connected. I really care for her, but although this may be true, I feel that her feelings for this woman is stronger to see anything new or better. Weve only hung out a couple of times and havent heard from her in a week. She does work two jobs and will be seeing her at a friends christmas party that I know she will attend soon. Weve been through similar experiences and I want to continue our friendship to see if it grows into something more. How do I talk to her w.out being too aggressive? or should I be? Should I visit her? Should I be discrete, give her hints or be strait up. And if I do, how? I know weve known one another for a short while, but I really like to try this out. I've talked to girls before, but never had any success. Please help.
2006-12-14 06:53:08 · 8 answers · asked by lOvInG mOmMiE 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Go to the Christmas party and bring a "special" gift just for her. Nothing too extravegant, just something meaningful and sweet.
Ask if you can go out sometime, straight up ask her out.
Then when you two are out, you can tell her how you've been feeling about her. Tell her you have feelings for her and see how she reacts.
2006-12-14 07:17:19 · answer #1 · answered by DEATH 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell her how ya feel, but try not to be too aggressive about it. I think getting her a small meaningful gift is a good idea. Just put your feelings out there (in a subtle way) and see if she comes around. If nothing works out romantically with her, then at least you can still have a friendship with her.
2006-12-14 09:47:39 · answer #2 · answered by Nate 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 19:26:31 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest with her. If she is a good hearted person you can tell her everything you have just told us without anything bad happening. Your fears are your biggest enemy and your best strength lies in tell the truth about your feelings.
2006-12-14 08:03:38 · answer #4 · answered by The Eight Ball 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Iam going to tell you what my best friend would say to you and shes a butch lesbian... Be arrgressive! Go and just tougue her down when you meet her... take her by the hand into a bed room and do what ya gots to do!
Believe me... it works.
2006-12-14 19:10:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be "strait up" with her. So many lesbian relationships don't happen because no one makes the first move...
2006-12-14 22:26:23 · answer #6 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her how you feel but don't be too aggressive, who to tell maybe she's waiting for a hint.
2006-12-14 12:43:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her how u feel...thats how my gf got me... and if she dont feel the same ...keep trying...
2006-12-14 07:02:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋