5 or 6 in the morning.Do you believe him? If he told you he was just driving around, because he had lots to think about. Would you believe that story? Oh and the last time you heard from him was at 445pm
2006-12-14 06:50:34 · 57 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
even if he had a lot to think about he still should have called you, the fact that he didn't looks very suspicious, I wouldn't let him off the hook too easy but just pay attention to how he acts, look for more evidence because the truth is you don't know-yet-if he's fooling around. So now that you have a suspicion be more observant and look for more things that can tell you if he is or if he's not cheating. Like phone records, gas or mileage, receipts, credit card charges etc. Find out the facts before you decide!!!
2006-12-15 07:28:21 · answer #1 · answered by moks 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am inclined to side with the young lady that said it was drugs. Have you ever dealt with drugs in your relationship before? I hate giving out personal information but it happened to me last year for amonth and half. Every two weeks my husband was gone on Friday night. The first time it was to go Christmas shopping. He lest at 6:30 and did call me at 5am and did admit what he was doing and he came home. The second time it was two weeks later and he left under the guise of attending an NA meeting. Needless to say 9 hours later he comes stumbling home. The third and final time occured 2 weeks after that and he was gone for 49 hours that time. That was the last time. I knew that he had dealt with issues with drugs before, but I was still completely broadsided and could never have seen it coming.
If he is cheating he would try to make it a lot less obvious than he is. People who cheat tend to do so during hours tha wouldn't be so conspicuous. Good luck to you I hope that you do find out what is going on. I will pray for you because noone deserves what you are going through, regardless of what the issue is.
2006-12-14 07:08:42 · answer #2 · answered by 1973kimberly 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH NO WAY!
Thats the best answer he could think of? I would dump hin just for that alone!
He is cheating. Check cell phone records. Check his bank account, if he was driving from 445pm to 5 am he would have had to have gotten gas, a few times, it should be on his bank statement if he uses a debit card
2006-12-14 07:19:55 · answer #3 · answered by Bombshell 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask for the receipt from the gas station... Surely he didn't drive 12 hours without going through the gas. If he can't produce that, let him sleep on the couch until he remembers where his *** really was last night...
And think about whether or not you can live with someone that disrepects you and lies to you... Change the locks next time he's out... ♥
2006-12-14 07:29:37 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ Butterfly ♥ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you can't honestly believe this load of crap. He is not even a good liar. Go to your mom's one night and come home and tell him you were out driving around all night and see if he believes you. What else is he lying about? Get your head of the sand and start looking at other things are going on in your life. Keep your mouth shut , get a detective and nail him, with his lies. Detectives are not cheap, but it can get you alot in court .
2006-12-14 07:20:05 · answer #5 · answered by springer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My husband wouldn't be able to explain crap about it.His things would be in the road waiting for him to pick up when he finally did arrive home.I don't play with liars.If you let him get away with this one now he will keep doing it because he will think you will just lay down and take his crap.Lets face it just driving around all night in man talk translates out to I was screwing this chick and fell a sleep at her place and needed a quick excuse that you couldn't disprove.
2006-12-14 09:46:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry hon, he is up to something and it isn't good. I think in your heart you already know that. :( It's cheating with a girlfriend, god forbid boyfriend or prostitute or it's drugs. Any of which are BAD for you....
Not only that he doesn't respect you or else he would try a little harder to excuse the behavior. It is SO hard but you have got to stand up and say I deserve better and mean it.
2006-12-14 22:33:51 · answer #7 · answered by Wicked Good 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be mad he couldn't come up with a better excuse.
Ma'am he was out doing the nasty. At least I use to say I got drunk and didn't want to drive so I stayed at friends house till I sobered up. He put no effort into his lie.
PS. To the crazy people saying trust him. First who thinks/dwells on something for 12 hours? Second why couldn't he step outside the house/apt and think or maybe another room? It's nothing wrong with trusting but being naive(or walking around with blinders) is being dumb.
2006-12-14 06:53:16 · answer #8 · answered by www.treasuretrooper.com/186861 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
look at the odometer - if a person has been driving around that long they would have put alot of miles on the vehicle - not to mention having to gas the vehicle up.
If the odometer looks pretty much the same, and there are no receipts for gas (or charges on the credit card for gas) - then sorry to say hun - but he probably wasnt out driving all night.
2006-12-14 06:57:05 · answer #9 · answered by halloweenbride97 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
What does your gut tell you? Really listen to your intuition. You know your man better than we do. My step-dad for instence, he likes to drive around, he does not get back that late but it is not unusal for him to be out until 10 just riding around. So it just depends on if the behavior of your man being out that late is something he usually does. Or just ask him, is he cheating or is there something that he wants to tell you and to be truthful. If he is then you all are not married right no ring onthe finger, say goodbye. He has no reason to lie to you, then why lie that is what I say.
If you are married it takes two, and if he is cheating be strong about it do not curse him out, or yell that is what he expects you to do. Just ask him in a calm manner why he decided to take the action that he did.
2006-12-14 07:02:11 · answer #10 · answered by Danielle 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋