This beautiful Pakistan born american girl i met and fell in love with over the net, and she appeared to love me too. She would say things like "I wanna wake you up with the touch of my lips".We went out the very day and spent 6 hours together. She even put her had on my shoulder when i was driving her back home, but then the next day, when i called her up, she was with her cousin whao apparently himself is in love with her (she's beautiful), and spoke ina very non-chalant manner. and later that night started tellin me that she;s plannin to fly over to another city with him for sight-seeing. And when I said "sounds romantic" she went "Whatever". and leter on told me that she's not doin that 'cos her other cousin is gonna fly with her.
On top of that she met a singer on her flight over he's invited her and her mother to dinner and they agreed?
she's kept me waiting for her visit here so we can get engaged and nw says she';s not ready to get married!
what do i do?
Whats wrong?
2006-12-14 06:21:51 · 7 answers · asked by Blueice 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You are the problem.
2006-12-14 06:27:15 · answer #1 · answered by BORED AT WORK 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie she was searching for the best option, and obviously she thinks that is someone else. Do not beat yourself down for it. So what if she was beautiful on the outside, cause the way she treated you shows she is not so beautiful on the inside.
I would focus on someone that lives near you, that you can build a real relationship with. Good luck, everything happens for a reason, trust me I know this now that I have finally met the love of my life!
2006-12-14 06:36:07 · answer #2 · answered by Needingsomeadvice 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like her "relationship" with you is just a joke. Using you as a play-thing for her own satisfaction. If she truly cared about you, she'd make more plans to visit you rather than seeing all these other men. Sorry sweetie, she's playing you for a fool. Dump her and find someone local.
2006-12-14 06:26:43 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is this question for real? If not, it's funny. If it is - you're pathetic. Just because you went out with a girl once it doesn't make her your "girlfriend", or obligate her to not ever see another man again. What country do you live in? Wake up.
2006-12-14 06:35:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop waiting for her look for another... she' snot worth waiting for if you think she is attracted to another guy.
2006-12-14 06:25:25 · answer #5 · answered by Raine Ssshhh... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's clearly cheating on you with someone who is, well, hung much better than yourself.
2006-12-14 06:24:02 · answer #6 · answered by mikey g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wELL FOR ONE...YOU SOUND OBESSISIVE AND CONTROLLING.
2006-12-14 06:32:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋