my question is how can I go to her when I am still mad at the things she did? She lied to me,and slept with my exboyfriend of 10yrs.
2006-12-14 05:57:56 · 18 answers · asked by luckycharm 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
first of all.... she didnt want to kill herself! she wanted attention! People who try to kill them selves are asking for help, and those who do kill themselves are truely helpless! So she is saying that her life has taking a drastic turn and she needs some real help! maybe you should really try and put those things behind you and help her. But she def. committed the ultimate sin of putting a man before her bf. the things she did to you are truely wrong, and she probably knows that. try and be the bigger person.
2006-12-14 06:05:24 · answer #1 · answered by smitty4626 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same thing happened to me... Not the same but similar. Well, the best you can do is just be by her side no matter what. Eventually, you'll talk about all of the things that bother you but it doesn't have to be right now. But that doesn't mean that you should keep your mouth shut and drag it into yourself. Just wait a minute and help her. She is obviously sorry, and just remind yourself why is she your best friend. Because you love her... And after all of this, if you can't quite figure out why you are still mad, just distance yourself a little bit and hang out with other people. You'll know then what you need and who... And its not about the boy. Go to her and she'll feel even more guilty but grateful too. You know that you are better person...
2006-12-14 06:33:45 · answer #2 · answered by Dijan4eto 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's been your ex for 10yrs, why do you care? Get over it! Obviously she's in need of a true friend right now. If you don't go to her and try to understand her, how would you feel if she tried again and succeeded? Would you just rub it off, or would you feel guilty thinking you might have been able to help?
2006-12-14 06:06:53 · answer #3 · answered by Jessica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only think is that I can suggest is that she' got some bigger things going on in her head if she tried to kill herself last night. Maybe you two should work through those before addressing the issues between you too. Good luck. It won't be easy if you try to help.
2006-12-14 06:01:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm happy to take heed to that your sister did no longer die. sometimes human beings will carry their issues in. the final ingredient they desire to do is burden somebody else. She picked a physically powerful time to take the pills. a niche at the back of her techniques had to be saved. She needs help. I say pay interest to her and hear yet do no longer over do it. too lots interest and doting will in simple terms set you men as much as be at her beck and insist in spite of. Relay a reliable message which you adore her and that their is not any project too huge or too small that she won't be able to seek suggestion from her kinfolk and which you're kinfolk and could be there for help no rely what. Get her in contact with some form of help team. Peer tension would be no longer ordinary. I pray that God will heal her harm and that he will convenience and handbook you and your loved ones as you help your sister. good luck and God Bless.
2016-10-14 22:52:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably should not go to her if you are still angry. People who kill themselves are usually mentally ill. It's a very selfish thing to do, because it ruins the lives of their loved ones when they are gone. She needs counseling. You cannot help her. I would send her a get well card and tell her you forgive her. But I would not go near her until she is well. (As for that boyfriend. It takes two to tango. She didn't do that alone. He slept with HER, too. So, that is one guy you shouldn't miss.)
2006-12-14 06:03:00 · answer #6 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgive for things of the past, she will see what a great friend you are beside the fact how she hurt you. You are there for her and I think she can forgive herself thta way. len d a hand , this is a persons life here and you obviously care about her. Be a friend and then you can talk about how you two feel
2006-12-14 06:03:20 · answer #7 · answered by lilbigred12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like you care about her regardless. You should want to be there for her, especially if she is trying to commit suicide. Right now, let the past go, let the ex boyfriend go, he is an ex honey. Maybe she's hurt about that. Maybe she's upset that she hurt you. Either way, you could probably be the one to get through to her that taking her own life isn't worth it. Be there for her, it would show of decent of a person you are, if your are!
Krazy Libra
2006-12-14 06:03:17 · answer #8 · answered by krazy_libra_from_ac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop thinking about yourself to start with. If you are only going to appease your feelings and to carry your anger and hate don't go. She needs love and support, not a visiting pity party. She slept with your EX boyfriend. Ex means that he is not your boyfriend. It was over between you and you have no business having any feeling over it.
2006-12-14 06:01:59 · answer #9 · answered by Answergirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no such thing as trying. If you want to you do it. She is crying out for help however. Be a friend. She needs you more then ever before now.
2006-12-14 05:59:32 · answer #10 · answered by Husker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋