I was told it was not easy to file, and I know it is not easy when I talk to my lawyer about divorcing my huband who left me Sept 11, 2006 after Aug 5, 2006. I haven't heard from him for two or three months. On the top of it, I found more harder to do it but he leave me no choice. I still love him but yet I am very mad at him for what he had done and I am on the waiting list until May 2007 to get the paper to file. So I am wondering if anyone feel or felt hurts or anger or whatever when you or your ex file for divorce and how long before you be able to start seeing another people?
2006-12-14 05:44:17 · 8 answers · asked by Deaf Cowgirl 27 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Divorce is very painful regardless of the reason.There is a tremendous sense of failure associated with it. It took me almost five years to really get over the aches and pains of the divorce but even now, 16 years later, I feel a sense of failure and pain. It was my choice to leave, but I was angry over the circumstances that led to the split. It will take time. How long before you see other people? That depends on you and when you feel you can open yourself up again, when you meet a nice guy, and when you've properly grieved for the loss of the first marriage. Don't be in a rush, but don't hide from the world either. I suggest counseling to work things through. I didn't and it was a mistake. Also, traditionally, the first relationship after a divorce doesn't work out -- so don't be disheartened. It is something you need to go through to get back in the swing of things. Good luck.
2006-12-14 05:53:27 · answer #1 · answered by lynn c 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Divorce is hard either way you look at it. It's something that you hope to never have to face but when the time comes that you will have to just do it & think that it's more than likely for the best.
I filed for divorce the very next day I left my ex. It was hard BUT I knew that he was not the one for me and the whole marriage was BS.
So just do what you think is best and keep your head up!
2006-12-14 13:54:36 · answer #2 · answered by La Chula 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my ex had divorce papers drawn up for 4 months before he even gave them to me. at first i was upset but now its the best thing that ever happened you will be okay and if theres someone you want to go out with go why not would you take you husband back if he came home i hope not get on with your life new doors are opening so shut and lock that old one.
2006-12-14 13:49:10 · answer #3 · answered by auntie s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your problem is your husband left you, feelings of guilt and such happen esp if you still have feelings for him,
I dont know where you are from that you need to wait, in Arizona you march down and file right away, then if he doesnt answer the served papers, you file again, and it is done pretty quickly,
2006-12-14 13:46:33 · answer #4 · answered by rich2481 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my own situation (a long story), I felt (and still feel) that the person was in some way "the one I was meant to be with" but still NOT a good situation for me to be in.
I felt better, over time. Still do.
Listen to your head and your heart will follow.
Good luck.
2006-12-14 13:50:37 · answer #5 · answered by American citizen and taxpayer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Free..but you must know I got married at 17 "shotgun wedding"
and my husband use to beat the hell out of me
2006-12-14 13:46:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say your seperated
2006-12-14 13:45:53 · answer #7 · answered by azflyboy6477 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relief!!!!!!!
2006-12-14 13:45:35 · answer #8 · answered by Mary N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋