would cheat on her...do you think what she dosent know cant hurt her or are you loyal.
or would she not agree to you going in the first place x
2006-12-14 04:21:51 · 22 answers · asked by ? 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No. I would absolutely not cheat on her. First off, no other woman in the world knows me like my wife does and therefor could NEVER hold a candle to my wife in bed. So just based on a purely physical and shallow level it's not even worth it. Lets not forget that I would know I cheated on her and that would simply help to destroy the fantastic relationship my wife and I have. Now add in the fact that I would have to lie about it to her and there we have bad communication starting. The more secrets you keep the worse off your communication becomes. Poor comunication leades to poor sex. There goes that killer sex life. Now without great communication and a sinking sex life the marriage is in danger.....repeat of cheating. None of that sounds worth a one night-er with someone who doesn't know what I like in the first place. I'll pass. I'll say it again. No other woman knows me like my wife. No other woman could please me the way she does. :)
2006-12-14 04:45:10 · answer #1 · answered by Evolving 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
For you to ask the question there is a question in regard to you trusting your wife or husband. Only you know whether they would or would not cheat. All the answers in the world will not replace the facts, although answers that best fit how you feel may colour your judgement.
The best policy is to be honest about how you feel about it, even if you appear to be the Jealous green eyed monster. Modern relationships don't last very long, old fashioned ones do.
The question should be if he was to cheat what are you going to do about it? Can you Forgive?
Personally I would not cheat, even if I was attracted to someone else, (I can safely say this as I used to work in the offshore industry which was no holiday but had women who worked there that were not all unnattractive.) and even when I was married then I would have wanted my wife to be with me on holiday enjoying one anothers company and sharing in the experience. I would also question the motives of my wife if she was asking to go on holiday without me, I would not want to be with someone who wants to be on holiday alone in the first place.
A lot of the time this kind of question makes me question the motives of the person asking the question, in context to what is good for the goose is good for the gander. Both get slaughtered and eaten for Christmas.
The best way to avoid getting hurt is not to go there in the first place, or to cause the hurt.
If you truly love someone then no matter the distance between you or the temptation presented you Love will overcome.
Your friends are not always HONEST, and want to look COOL and out there. What you reap is what has been sown, no one gets away with anything no matter how long it takes!
HONESTY IS THE BEST POLICY, and PATIENT.
Merry Christmas
2006-12-14 05:24:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can't imagine that I'd ever get the chance to holiday abroad on my own particularly having been married twice before....... Besides, what man would want to leave their wife anyway if all was well at home, surely you'd want to take her too???
Only allowed to go on business trips in the UK now and then only by being strictly policed........
2006-12-14 05:14:21 · answer #3 · answered by Steve D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i trust my partner and have never had doubts about him cheating while on holiday...he's been away many times with the lads on golfing trips...i would just let him go and have a laugh with his mates...he works hard enough to earn his money so the most he deserves is a holiday abroad.....that thought does not cross my mind...unless he gives me reason to suspect him, which he hasn't, so it's all good
2006-12-14 04:37:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, not In my case, my wife knows who she married. Faithful to the bone. I told her that I would rather die than cheat on her. I was glad to hear the same from her, lol. Trust weighs heavily in a marriage. If you don't have good trust & communication in a marriage, someone is more than likely to give.
2006-12-14 04:37:19 · answer #5 · answered by This, That & such 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sure I'd cheat on her. Why the hell shouldn't I?
If she's dumb enough to let me loose in somewhere like Paris with all those beautiful French broads smelling of expensive perfume, then I'm gonna get my willie out and slip 'em one.
You're not a goddamn nun, are you alice?
2006-12-14 09:21:29 · answer #6 · answered by Panama Jack 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am loyal. I couldn't live with myself if I cheated. But I know I'm the exception nowadays.
2006-12-14 04:42:48 · answer #7 · answered by sickblade 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First of all I wouldn't go on a Holiday abroad without my wife. If she doesn't go then neither do I.
2006-12-14 04:33:14 · answer #8 · answered by supressdesires 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
did this & I am sure if she come to know she will go mad. The good think in cheating is we will go back to home with more love on wife, with many gift and as a new man caring her more than was
2006-12-14 04:33:44 · answer #9 · answered by smartcamal1 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Loyal, if you are cheating on her she could just as easily cheat on you.
2006-12-14 04:24:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋