i believe that there is nothing wrong with it for people can like whoever they like if there atracted to both the opposite sex and the same sex so be it i kno i am i aint afraid to admit i mean there are some ****** hot girls out there and there are some cute guys out there too i belive most girls are bisexual but i want to here other peoples opinions????
2006-12-14 04:18:36 · 51 answers · asked by juggalette~dopey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Let me be clear, because clarity in a time of confusion is great.
Psychologically speaking, we're all bisexual, although at different degrees.
Biologically speaking, we're primarily heterosexual. But through culture, Humans are pretty much the only species that deny biology.
Evolutionarily speaking, we must ask: What is the advantage to the perpetuation of the species to be bisexual? And the answer is: we have more options. If you're able to perpetuate the species BETTER by living and being romantically involved with a member of your same sex, then by all means go ahead.
And religiously speaking, bisexuality is wrong.
You see, religion is the only view that makes it right or wrong. Every other view makes it fact or NOT fact. Or necessary or NOT necessary. Or better or worse.
So to ask if bisexuality is wrong is merely a question based on a religious foundation.
So feel good about yourself completely. You are bisexual. So what? Your main focus for now is to see if you can make peace with the idea that, religiously, you'll be wrong. But that's the main goal of religion: to be absolutist. It doesn't make it right. It doesn't make it wrong. It just makes it stubborn and, like I said, absolutist.
People are not wrong by saying you are wrong. They're just letting religious creep in.
2006-12-14 04:30:49 · answer #1 · answered by Mario E 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Look at the basics of the word bisexual. It means to have sexual preference to the same or the opposite sex. Now, look at what sex is. Be careful not to mistake it for love. Love is an emotion, a mental feeling. Love doesn't make you have orgasm. Sex does. Nobody can deny, orgasms feel great. It is the result of heightened sexual stimulation. Stimulation can come from any source. It is most influenced by the mind which is influenced from all your senses . So what pleases the mind? If seeing, feeling, touching, smelling, and hearing what is beautiful to you stimulates you regardless of their gender and it helps you to reach sexual satisfaction, then that is good. Sexual choice says nothing of your human qualities and therefore, should not be a judgmental factor in right or wrong of your ethics.
2006-12-15 04:30:51 · answer #2 · answered by Mike A 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not wrong. It is a matter of whatever works for you. Without judgment, live and let live, while enjoying the gifts life has to offer along the way. If that means picking partners of both sexes, then it's all good. I'm not sure that most girls are bisexual, but I wouldn't bother me if that was true. And to all those who insist on a self-righteous, moralistic view, I'd say; an open, enlightened mind makes life a lot more enjoyable. Remember the Golden Rule. If that doesn't work for you, then maybe we should ask Ted Haggard his opinion on the matter.
2006-12-14 04:33:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
What's "wrong" is determined by when people have an *intention* to cause harm to another individual or one's personal property. Bisexuality does not intend to harm others or personal property. Therefore, bisexuality is not "wrong." However, that's by the *legal* definition. Any other form of "wrong" strictly refers to the defiance of one's personal opinion or morals regarding bisexuality. Yet, simply because some other individual disagrees with another's nature does mean the specific nature is question is "wrong" by factual means. "Morality" does not equate to absolute truth, but rather personal choices and opinions.
2016-05-24 03:10:31 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey i don't think it's wrong to be bisexual! I am bisexual as a matter of fact and you will like whoever you like people can deal wit it because everybody has there own preference for who they like! And u are right there are cute guys and Sexy Girls so i'm not afraid to admit it. So in all there is nothing wrong wit it.
2006-12-14 04:53:28 · answer #5 · answered by babygurl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with at one bit.... I don't agree with most girls are bisexual but there are a lot..... Some people think it seems to be the in thing to be bi but i just think its just become more acceptable these days so people are more open about it.... I luv being with two bi girls at the same time... Ops, there goes the thumbs down from the god squad lol
2006-12-14 17:43:21 · answer #6 · answered by 2 good 2 miss 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is not wrong to be straight, bisexual, or homosexual and people who honestly think otherwise are really close-minded.
I am straight but, I do find other girls attractive. I wouldn't date another girl but if I was bisexual I wouldn't be afraid to be so.
I hate the fact that there is so much homophobia in the world and sad to say, lots of hatred coming from Christians who think homosexuals are going to hell.
And don't anyone pounce on me; I used to be an avid church -goer who belonged to an AG Christian church. I left when I found out how ridiculous some of the doctrine was. It was never about acceptance; it was about exclusiveness.
2006-12-14 04:30:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm not sure if "most" are but I am. It's not wrong. It's just how we (you and I) are. Ever since I was a little girl I would practice french kissing on my best freind Gloria. Never thought anything about it. Then in h.s. I kinda had a crush on my best friend. (a girl) I mean I've never dated a woman but I've had sex and it's FABULOUS. I am currently in a great relationship with a man and can't imagine being with a woman. For me, it's purely sexual.
2006-12-14 04:28:28 · answer #8 · answered by Mimi 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sexual ID and those labels are whats wrong with our whole society. What was once fantasy or taboo becomes "normal" and no one is paying attention to whats moral and whats not. To me, if you want to experience something, you can do it in your own discretion and not label yourself or become somewhat something thats immoral. if all these things were so said "normal" wouldnt you think that it would have been a part of society in the open since the beginning? Somehow, those who were smart enough to create things like math, pyramids and any other smart inventions failed to see how "normal" these things are? I guess we outsmart them. It's morally wrong.
2006-12-14 04:35:13 · answer #9 · answered by monreve_2000 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No way, I think it's totally cool. I had my first bisexual experience when I was still in HS and have been swinging both ways ever since. You're right about there being alot of hot women out there!
2006-12-14 04:24:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋