My x- the father of my children doesn't want me to call him any more dose'nt even want to see the kids because he said I bug him to much and now his life is not my problem any more.Now he taking care of someone else family and we have'nt even got the devorice yet.
2006-12-14 04:06:24 · 9 answers · asked by melly 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
just be honest....tell to them the truth,tell them to **** off!:)
2006-12-14 04:08:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, he is wishful thinking. You can legally make him pay child support for your children. If he doesn't visit his children for 2 years, most states allow you to terminate his parental rights, but then you give up getting the support he's been paying. I, personally, would point out to him that he's going to have to pay you child support and alimony payments. He isn't much of a man if he won't see his children. They will grow up to hate him and have a hole in their hearts that their own father doesn't miss them! What a jerk he is! You are so much better off without that monster. That poor woman he's living with. He'll probably leave her one day, too, and damage those children emotionally, also. Get a lawyer and sue him for child support and alimony immediately. When he sees how much money he's going to have to pay you, he may change his tune.
2006-12-14 12:18:20 · answer #2 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it sound like you been through the same thing i been through well he don't mean it but hay the hell with him because if he acting that way with you and want to do things for some one else he wasn't there for you in the first place or the kids he was just there for sex and not family or his kids so if i was you wouldn't call him or to get along with him i would stay my distance from the sorry *** man cause a good for man make it bad for a man that would help you and be there for you and your kids so i would leave him alone
2006-12-14 12:33:03 · answer #3 · answered by MRS DEE 2 U 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kids need their father. He will really damage them if he gets out of their lives...
Back off... let him miss them...
If he has an e-mail account e-mail him ONLY when it is completely necessary.
Not more than once a week MAX.
If the kids are old enough have them call their dad once a week to talk to him, and leave the room.. let them talk.
We got my son a cell phone, that way if he wanted to talk to his dad, or if his dad needed to talk to him, they could do so and bypass me.
Good luck to you.
2006-12-14 12:10:04 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as he follows through with child support payments you should leave him alone. If he does not want anything to do with the kids so be it. Do not beg.
2006-12-14 12:08:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him be. Concentrate on yourself and your children.
Speed up your divorce and ensure he make regular child support payments. He's not worthy of you OR the children!
2006-12-14 12:11:35 · answer #6 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make a plan.
decide what you need to do.
decide what has to be done.
decide were you want your life to go.
decide to live your and your kids lives.
come up with several options.
remember what is important here, "the kids".
you can not change others, only yourself.
2006-12-14 12:23:36 · answer #7 · answered by nwnativeprincess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorse the jerk & take him to court for child support.Your children get the financial support,,not the children that are not his.Then you & your children will be happy & he'll be chit outta luck. ;O) Let him be gone.
2006-12-14 12:09:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
divorce him and get child support
2006-12-14 12:12:10 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋