i know a friend called nessa we been friends for a year now or maybe more, she is always in a good mood always happy and im kinda not,, so i took a look at things she has and i dont,,
she has THE LOOK, shes kinda rich her dad is a business man shes doing business too shes in a good college, she has a wonderful personallity, has good friends she goes to different countries every year, plus she a cool part-time job she works in a company pays her better than avrage students
however i dont got the look,i think my dad is rich im doing finance kinda same as her major if i ask for a part-time job i wont get as cool as hers,i dont have a good personallity i got an attitude problem lol im obsessed with travling but i cant afford it
she asked me to go with her to a trip thats when i realize that im broke!! i know its gonna be always this way she will always be happier than i am she will always be richer than i am because she has more opportunities than i do!! am i right or wrong ?
2006-12-14 04:04:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
well she has a different personality from yours,I don,t think it has to do with money.She looks at things differently from you and she reacts differently from you,sounds as if shes real happy with her life and just a happy person.....There is nothing wrong with you if you are not happy all the time,people have different personalites...Why are you trying to be like her? you cannot do that,Im sure you have a good personality also...Just be yourself and learn to like yourself..No matter how much you try to be like her you can,t,it just would not be you.It would be a bad world if everyone went around Happy all the time,we need all kinds of people in this world...Stop obsessing and be happy with yourself...She might just be putting on a happy face when she is around someone,no one is constantly happy...she has just learned that other people don,t like to be around a unhappy person,so she tries to be postive....Cheer up ,its ok to be you!
2006-12-14 04:22:13 · answer #1 · answered by slickcut 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you asked her if she is a born-again Christian? Jesus could be the source of the joy she has and if He is, then your money situation will not matter to her. If she is practicing the definition of love in the Bible, worldly things won't matter as much as showing love. Read together I Corinthians 13 "The Love Chapter" and see what I mean. Love is patient and kind and seeks not it own way at the expense of others. Such love will sacrifice its own life to save the life of another. Money isn't everything and it looks like she doesn't care how much you make. You might want to try to practice what is written about love in that chapter and find out what kind of difference it can make in your life when it changes your attitude.
2006-12-14 12:21:35 · answer #2 · answered by Captain Cupcake 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
your perception and outlook towards life will affect the way your cards are dealth. if you are a happy positive person then positive things will happen to you, but if you are negative, always discontent, then negative things will happen to you. I think your friends positive personality has a lot to do with her situation in life and you as well, so stop looking and trying to get what other people have got as that can not bring you genuine happiness. look inside and develop the positivity in you. stick with your job,in time good things will find you.
2006-12-14 14:01:17 · answer #3 · answered by blue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah- but don't get bogged down by this. no matter how Sorted, happy, lucky you are there is always someone better.
Find ways in which you can improve your life, to make you happier, don't worry about other people, life has a way of evenning things out in the long run.
2006-12-14 12:12:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a touch of the green eyed monster.
Concentrate on making the best of what you've got, or finding better for yourself.
You make your own happiness, you wont find it by looking at what someone else has got!
2006-12-14 12:12:27 · answer #5 · answered by Emma K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to stop being jealous and deal with the cards that fate has dealt you.
2006-12-14 12:12:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are dead wrong. YOU make your life what you want it to be.
Concentrate on YOUR goals.......NOT what anyone else has or does. You are one who has your own interests. Find out what they are and work towards fulfilling your dreams!
2006-12-14 12:14:25 · answer #7 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's probably emo as hell underneath
2006-12-14 12:11:37 · answer #8 · answered by ★♥ KillerBea ♥★ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u need 2 stop comparing ureself 2 other people learn to like ureself and enjoy wat u hav got , make the most of every day!!
2006-12-14 12:10:19 · answer #9 · answered by cas 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋