I'm 18 and my husband is 31. I am horney all the time and wouldnt mind having sex 3 or 4 times a day. On the other hand he wouldnt mind having sex once a month. I get tired of always having to please myself and i dont want to cheat on him. What should i do.
2006-12-14 03:59:33 · 4 answers · asked by Ms. Stickey Ikey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I don't feel that your age difference has much to do at all with your husbands sex drive. I am 36 years old and could easily have sex 2-3 times a day or more...my wife on the other hand is 10 years younger than me and is happy with once a week or so.
People just have different sex drives. Now if your husband loves you then he should be willing to have sex more often even if he is not in the mood. My wife will have sex with me more than once a week because she knows I have a very high sex drive...and she always gets taken care of well in the Orgasm department in return :)
Try asking him to help you please yourself sometimes...this is very fun for a man to watch and participate in and can usually turn on a partner who may not be all that horny at the time. My wife will give me handjobs sometimes when she is not horny and it does help take the edge off of my high sex drive. Ask him to do this for you. Mutual masturbation is also very exciting.
It's all about communication, tell him honestly and openly that your needs are not being met sexually and discuss how he can better meet them with you. Maybe he would like you to dress up as a naughty nurse or something, maybe you could watch porn together to get in the mood. A few drinks never hurt either..but only a few!!!
Don't get discouraged though...if he is a good man then he will be willing to change some things to better satisfy you.
2006-12-14 11:05:08 · answer #1 · answered by FunkyChicken2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I too am an older man, much older than your husband romance and sex remain in my life. If your husband requires that few of times it could be a medical problem
and he needs to seek help. Hold off on the cheating thing!
2006-12-14 17:49:36 · answer #2 · answered by supressdesires 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he needs to get some help and see a doctor. I am 50 and want sex all the time.
2006-12-14 13:35:21 · answer #3 · answered by upatfour 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the sex isn't good for him.
2006-12-14 14:27:39 · answer #4 · answered by Monty L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋