My husband does not think its right he gets all mad when I put him in it,but im trying to get stuff done..How can I get anything done if im running after him??
2006-12-14 03:53:51 · 41 answers · asked by jessica_may23 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Newborn & Baby
he is 18 months and he love to be in his playpin..He plays with his toys and watched Barney and other baby stuff...
2006-12-14 04:12:41 · update #1
im also pregnet again and it hurts to bend over all the time to get him out of trouble..
2006-12-14 04:17:37 · update #2
He can be fine all happy and playing with his toys..Before my husband leaves for work he picks him up and puts him on the floor..Right when im doing something..Yes im a stay at home mom..
2006-12-14 04:22:12 · update #3
of course its ok to put him in there how else are you going to get things done by holding him which only gives you one arm and extremely spoiling him that way and then later when hes almost two your going to be regreting it put him in there give your self a rest good luck with the man meaning by letting you put him in there
2006-12-14 03:58:15 · answer #1 · answered by <3 mykiddos,mylife <3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your husband is getting mad that you want to clean house, there's something wrong with him. Babies need a little time alone, although not neglected. If you do put him in a playpin to pick up, be sure he's in close vicinity, so that you can keep an eye on him. Don't put objects in the playpin that could cause him to suffocate or choke. As long as you stay close by, he should be fine for a little while. Playpins are pretty versatile today, so you can tote it around to whatever room you're cleaning. Best of luck! I just don't think men understand.
2006-12-14 03:57:42 · answer #2 · answered by Shannon L - Gavin's Mommy 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Your husband does he work out side of the home? And you are a stay at home mom? If so i wouldn't care what he thinks. If he was the one at home with the baby 24/7 and had to take care of the house he wouldn't be complaining. As long as the baby is safe i wouldn't worry. Another thing why buy a playpin if your not going to use it? Tell your husband to calm down.
2006-12-14 04:00:28 · answer #3 · answered by Curious J. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old is your baby? I have a 9 month old and I know when I need to do some cleaning, if it's not heavy work, I let him play nearby. On the other hand, there is nothing wrong with putting the baby in the playpen. It's safe, the baby can't roam, and your hands are free. Go ahead and do it, it will not harm the baby or anything. Oh, if the baby cries, play some children's music, or run the vaccum, that always helps.
2006-12-14 03:59:23 · answer #4 · answered by lafy tafy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he has toys (provided he/she's old enough not to suffocate with them) and is content I don't see why not. I know exactly what you are talking about. I work during the day, but I can't get anything done in the house when we get home until he goes to bed.
Depending on his age, you could try an exercaucer too. That way it's not a pen, but he still sits still, but that only works until he/she can crawl and then they just don't want to sit.
Let your husband try it some time. Give him a list of stuff that needs to be done while you "run some errands" and leave the baby home with him. See how much he gets done if your son is running about.
2006-12-14 03:59:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on your baby. Some babies love to be in the playpen, and for others it's like torture. Get him used to it slowly. Put him in for a few minutes with some favorite toys and stay where he can see you. Talk to him, sing a song, while you are doing dishes or something. Work up to more time. But don't leave him unattended, especially if you have pets or other children around. Also, when you have a baby it's okay to lower your standards. Leaving things undone is okay. As your baby gets older, you'll have more time for cleaning. I used to wear my baby on my front or back in a carrier. This kept him close, and allowed me to get a few things done around the house too. Let your husband know that you'd appreciate his help when he's home as well. Enjoy your baby!
2006-12-14 04:07:54 · answer #6 · answered by Laura 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your husband that if he does not like the baby being put in the playpin then he can either do the cleaning or watch the baby. If you are feeling guilty about it try one of those baby slings or carriers. You can have the baby attached to you and both hands free. Its not perfect but its another option.
2006-12-14 03:59:08 · answer #7 · answered by ragtad 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not only ok, its completely necessary! I wouldnt be writing this right now if my son wasnt in his playpen. Now if they are screaming their head off and turning red in the face, then maybe thats a different story. But, even when my son was newborn I would put him in the bassinet attachment of the playpen and turn the mobile on so i can clean bottles. Babies need to learn independence or they will be attached at the hip and you won't get anything done.
2006-12-14 03:58:34 · answer #8 · answered by Hayley C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't be with the baby at all times. What do you do when you have to go to the bathroom or something?
Of course it's ok to put the baby in the playpen while you try to take care of your husband and house also.
It should not be used as a babysitter though.
2006-12-14 04:04:20 · answer #9 · answered by littlemomma 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course it is okay.I mean how else are you supposed to get stuff done?If your husband has a problem with it then tell him to clean the house or whatever while watching the little man without putting him in the playpen and see how much he gets done.
2006-12-14 04:16:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is okay. I put mine in the play pen when i need to get some stuff done. Most of the time i put her in there facing the television and put on a kids show. There is no harm to it. If your hubby gets mad then let him do the running while you do the chores.
2006-12-14 03:58:10 · answer #11 · answered by Riderya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋