I caught my husband in middle of the night, masturbating while looking at naked girls on TV. I am outrageous! Can't forgive, he apologised, but I can't get over this...help, what should I do? forgive or not?
2006-12-14 03:37:53 · 5 answers · asked by M P 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It's okay to be angry, but who are you really angry at? Him for being a normal male, or you for not being the one responsible for his need to masturbate? If you want to keep a healthy sex like, maybe you could offer to help him masturbate and he will shift his attention away from the tube and give the attention to you. Don't be so prude and give him a hand once in a while, not only will he love you for it, but he'll be less likely to cheat too.
2006-12-14 13:31:11 · answer #1 · answered by Mariana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you insane? What is the big deal? It's not like he had another woman in there with him. It's natural for a man or woman to do this. There isn't anything to forgive him about. I'm not trying to be mean or anything but do you have sex with him on a regular basis? I not, a man has to relieve head pressure or he could wind up in the hospital. Really.
2006-12-14 15:37:01 · answer #2 · answered by WHO ME 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, that is so not a big deal. forgive him and get over it. could have been much worse. tell him to come to you whenever he needs his desires met. but that really is nothing to be mad at him for, it's very normal for men.
2006-12-14 15:35:48 · answer #3 · answered by Bombshell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was masturbating while watching TV. AT least you didn't catch him with another women. Why did he apologize? Are you that INSECURE. Get over it or LEAVE.
2006-12-14 13:16:06 · answer #4 · answered by Monty L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
really not a big deal.
2006-12-14 13:51:38 · answer #5 · answered by steemshovel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋