if a guy is jealous and he confessed it several times to her girlfriend tht he cant tolerate her other guy friends even if she talks to them on phone...because his girlfriend is beautiful n other guys like her....he breaks off his relation with her. can jealous really lead to such horrid results....like ending or spoiling of her very sweet relation with her boyfriend??? does jealous rule n has so much power???
2006-12-14 03:17:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Jealousy is a form of emotional abuse. This often leads to intense physical abuse. They are dealing with childhood trauma . they lack self love and acceptance. keep your distance and set up strong personal bounderies. Read Caroline Myss for assistance. They are toxic in that state of being and they will consume you, heart and soul.
2006-12-14 03:24:52 · answer #1 · answered by iamonetruth 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes jealousy can lead to such results. But personally I think that if someone in the relationship is soo jealous that they would break up with their partner over it - then they have trust issues.
Of course in every relationship, someone will be jealous. That's just life. But if it's so bad that you can't even stand to be that person because you are so jealous, than it's you who has a problem and might need to grow up a bit.
I hope you don't take offense to this. I was a very jealous girlfriend before, but I've grown up and realized it's because I have trust issues. And now I know that I have to work on those before I'm going to get myself into another relationship. Good luck!
2006-12-14 04:20:11 · answer #2 · answered by SkyNightDreamer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy is just a symptom of insecurity. Sometime a guy has very good reasons to feel insecure. Some women are obnoxious flirts, some women are unfaithful, some women do torture their men with head-games. Sometimes the insecurity is unfounded, or the guy has no right to be jealous and the guy is just mental (OJ).
Personally I hate girls who have too many male friends, because the girl always claims the relationship is purely about friendship, but every guy knows these guys are just playing the friend angle and wish the boyfriend would drop off the face of the earth.
If you value your boyfriend you need to be realistic about your male friends. If your boyfriend is unjustifiably jealous....run.
2006-12-14 03:34:50 · answer #3 · answered by tenbadthings 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, jealousy can ruin relationships easily and often does. Is this really news to you?
2006-12-14 03:25:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have that problem.
But I stuck with it because my girlfriend is the best and she stuck by me.
2006-12-14 03:21:38 · answer #5 · answered by Markie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate the way you type and talk.
2006-12-14 03:26:09 · answer #6 · answered by BelzeeBob! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah it can.....its someting that u have to get over.....but u also have to have trust if there is no trust then u really have nothing!
2006-12-14 03:26:56 · answer #7 · answered by Loser Chic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋