2006-12-14 03:17:36 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Not at all! after college the sky is the limit! besides most marriages are on the rocks because of finacial matters so if you have an education and get a good job and marry someone, you got the bills covered and can focus on the love!
2006-12-14 03:34:48 · answer #1 · answered by Chris 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What's wrong or right? But think about what is most important to you. I'm 30, and I can tell you that there is a LOT of stuff that can go on from the time you are 16 to 25 or so that has nothing to do with marriage, and is exciting, builds who you are and your growth, and allows you to play. I think getting married at 16 changes your life forever in a way that you may negatively look at because you didn't get a chance to enjoy other things, to be a teen and have fun. Doesn't mean getting married can't mean those things, but you are suddenly committed to someone for the rest of your life and expected to stay that way.
If you like the guy you are seeing, just keep dating. What's going to change by having a piece of paper saying you are married? if you are both meant for each other, then you will stay together, but maybe marriage is meant for a few years down the road when you get the "teen" years out of your system and then become a big silly grownup who is part kid/part teen/part grownup!
2006-12-14 03:21:17 · answer #2 · answered by mrjohntesh 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not wrong- you can think about doing anything you want. What you want to make sure of though is that you are also thinking about all the pros and cons of being married at such a young age. Have you gotten all your partying out? Have you had the number of sexual experiences you want to have before you get married? Do you have a clear, realistic picture of what marriage is, and how it will change your life and the responsibilities you will have to take on? Have you defined all your life goals and dreams, and will you be sure to talk about them with your future spouse to make sure you're on the same page? Will you talk about tough issues, such as what would happen if ...{insert high stress situation here}? Will you make sure you have the same view of monogamy or a lack thereof? Have you figured out exactly why you want to get married and made sure that it is because you want to share your life with someone fully and completely and not simply to "be married"? Lots to think about. *smiles*
2006-12-14 03:52:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing at all wrong about thinking, making potential plans for the future, but to actualize those plans at the age of 16 would be a mistake. You would close yourself off from some of the most important years of your life if you married now. I know you say you are only thinking about it, and that's cool. Keep it in your head is all I'm saying.
Good Luck!
2006-12-14 03:24:59 · answer #4 · answered by The Mystic One 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think about it all you want. Go ahead and set a date and make the plans. Go ahead and buy the dress. You are talking at least 6 years from now. Do you really honestly think that you or he will be the same person six years from now? Do think you are both done forming all the character you will ever be? At your age, 6 years is a life time. Most 16 year olds can't imagine being 22. Seems old to them. Go ahead and think about it, but I can almost assure you by the time you are 19, you will laugh at yourself for being such a niave kid.
2006-12-14 03:21:46 · answer #5 · answered by javelin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is totally nothing wrong with thinkin about marriages at your age. As time passes you will learn to know if this person will indeed be the one once you are in college because things come your way and it up to u both to overcome thoses hurdles
2006-12-14 03:32:23 · answer #6 · answered by curious1 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its never wrong to think about it...all girls do! we dream about that perfect wedding, the dress, the church, the guy...everything.
ideally...its great that you at least know you want to wait until you finish college! most people get married before or during college. when that happens they either never go or don't finish...cause well life happens, you get pregnant...next thing you know by 25 you are a married, no college or half way done, and realize its not an easy task to do it all...college, parenthood, married life. so you stay with the domestic life instead of going after the real dream of college and a degree then going domestic...lol
2006-12-14 03:26:56 · answer #7 · answered by Get_R_Done_n_Dallas 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well it's not wrong. Its a free country you can do whatever you like. But there is a catch....can u handle the pressure of married life. Do u have enough money to support your family. Getting married is not all fun and games and SEX but there is a lot to do and u gotta handle. Some people get married early have lots of kids and can't support them. Do you want your own "future" kids to suffer. Hmmm well think about it take a sec. and if u can take all the downs of married life then GO GET MARRIED!
2006-12-14 03:25:01 · answer #8 · answered by retiro c 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with thinking about getting married. However, I do think that actually getting married when you are just out of college is a bad idea because you would be too young.
2006-12-14 03:20:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think about an education first, hon. Always be able to support yourself. Go to school, get that degree, get a great jog. Get into a great company, and meet great guys. Then, think about getting married.... The better your education, the better the pick of great guys. Uneducated women end up with the dregs of society (someone has to --- you just don't want to be one of them!!!!) -- just read some of these questions on here...like "Im 18 years old, I have two kids, he's drunk all the time, I have no way to support my self, he beats me up and screws other women.... what should I do?" yeah, like right. And answer? "Why didn't you use your head before you got pregnant?", or a ton of other answers, none of which will solve the girl's problem...Don't let this ever be you, sweetie.
2006-12-14 03:28:47 · answer #10 · answered by April 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋