2006-12-14 03:16:49 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Plans change girl!! When i got preg I thought my life was over but in all actuality it was really just starting! Trust in God and do the right thing! Everything will be okay!
2006-12-14 03:23:11 · answer #1 · answered by Aubrey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you decided to do is obviously totally up to you and your boyfriend more up to you. I think that when you make the decision to have sex that you need to be aware of the consequences and if you know that being pregnant is one of them then thats when you make your decision. If you know in your heart that you odnt want kids til your about 27 then id say abstenince is the answer for you. If its too late then id say most definetely have the baby because its not the babys fault, you and your boyfriend are theo nes who made this possible so face the consequences. If your not mentaly, emotionaly, or physically stable, and ready for a baby then id say weigh out your options. If your not ready to raise a kid then have it but maybe consider adoption, but i think the worse mistake you could possibly make would be to have an abortion, that would haunt you forever. Like i said before i cant tell you what to do but i can give you my opinion and that would be to try and raise that kid, and refrain from sexual activity again until your ready to have kids.
2006-12-14 11:27:16 · answer #2 · answered by bubbysgurl888 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you didnt intend to have children yet then why weren't you using protection! If you get rid of the pregnancy which is completely and morally wrong, then that's something you have to deal with for the rest of your life. A regret that many people have! Do consider doing the right thing. If you're not ready to raise the child yourself there is always adoption which also gives you the opportunity to see your child later on in life knowing gave them a good life..... or just A LIFE!
2006-12-14 11:23:58 · answer #3 · answered by missjewl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do turn out to be pregnant, I would suggest putting the child up for adoption. There are thousands of loving families that are unable to have children themselves that would feel so blessed with a child. If you aren't pregnant yet, get on birth control and wait until you're married and ready for a child.
2006-12-14 11:23:54 · answer #4 · answered by Shannon L - Gavin's Mommy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell the boyfriend and decide what to do together - just make sure he knows that this is something that wasn't planned or his trust in you will disappear.
2006-12-14 11:29:16 · answer #5 · answered by chicchick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are pregnant now, you'll need to look at adoption. Obviously you are not ready if you are not 27 right now.
2006-12-14 11:21:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How far away from 27 years old are you?
Sometimes things donn't happen perfectly on schedule!
2006-12-14 11:21:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take responsibility for your actions..God blessed you with a gift that a lot of ppl would love to have and cant. Just because its not the right timing for you doesnt mean you should kill it....maybe you should have taken better care to PREVENT getting pregnant.
If you dont want the baby then give it up for adoption
2006-12-14 11:23:30 · answer #8 · answered by mommy2be in march! 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Is this a hypothetical question?
But give it up for adoption babies go fast. Or just accept that sometimes plans don’t go the way we original plan them.
2006-12-14 11:23:21 · answer #9 · answered by Spread Peace and Love 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would have the baby and look at the options for the baby. Abortion will mess with your head in the end...
2006-12-14 11:22:47 · answer #10 · answered by Ms. Chick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋