and by ditching you, made you become a loner in middle school (practically)
but you still think about their friendship and wished you could change who you were in middle school
and now that you are much older (in university) maybe its time to forgive and forget?
2006-12-14 03:16:13 · 11 answers · asked by girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Yes forgiveness is a good thing.
2006-12-14 03:18:02 · answer #1 · answered by bmoregurl23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no gone are the friends we once had. . . I almost made a woman (who was once my best friend in 6th grade)choke on her communion because in school I wasn't considered "religious" and now I'm a minister. Her parents decided I wasn't the right kind of girl they thought I worshiped the devil cause I was into heavy metal(still am). She tried to have me removed from service at the church(cause really I'm the anti-christ) after failing in her attempt she quit attending our church. Move on make new friends ones that know who you are now not who you wanted to be then.
2006-12-14 03:31:43 · answer #2 · answered by Rainy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, think about how different you are today compared to who you were in junior high. You did things back then that you probably would not dream of doing today. People change, and forgiveness will give you that good feeling.
2006-12-14 03:19:15 · answer #3 · answered by misscongeniality711 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
forgive and forget is one thing, trying to be their friend again is desperate. accept what they did to you but move on. you are better off without this person, how do you know you can trust them? you dont need this girl for a friend. she's the one suffering a loss, not you.
2006-12-14 03:19:45 · answer #4 · answered by sj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes...forgive but don't forget!!! Move on with other people, they ditched you remember? Keep your memories.
2006-12-14 03:20:37 · answer #5 · answered by CURVY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I under no circumstances incredibly ditched college, my attendance replaced into incredibly good! yet I bear in suggestions having each week off college, just to pass to Scotland because of the fact my sister replaced into having her wedding ceremony there! lol look on the quantity of solutions you acquire, you look tremendously enjoyed lol!
2016-10-05 07:32:28 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best revenge is living well. forget them and make new friends. chances are they never gave you a second thought. you are only in college? stop living in the past already or you will never have a future.
2006-12-14 03:18:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think u should forgive and forget and ask them for a cup of coffee.
2006-12-14 03:18:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No. Let them alone. If someone I didn't like from high school approached me, I don't believe there is any need for us to fake being nice & talk.
2006-12-14 03:18:16 · answer #9 · answered by IMHO 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it may be best to move forward and meet new friends with similar interests.
2006-12-14 03:18:16 · answer #10 · answered by wldhrt72 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋