what if a friend only wants to talk to just because she does nt have friends right now?

Question

but when she does she ingnores you what do u think i should do?

Answer 1

ah, a fair weather friend.

Explain that your feelings are hurt when it seems at times, she is ignoring you.

you can decide, if you feel she is using you, don't fall into her trap, when she comes around, be unavailable, or don't take the time, unless you want to.

Set the boundarys for your friendship. It is a two way street. If she is not meeting your needs, then it may be time to cut the ties.

good luck.

Answer 2

Tell her how you feel. Tell her you don't appreciate being used. You may want to ask her to make a decision - either be a friend, and be there for YOUR needs too, or don't be a friend at all.

But make sure you talk about how this makes YOU feel, and not "You're so . . . " .