he ahs done sex with me now he refuses to amrry me what can i do?
2006-12-14 02:55:41 · 29 answers · asked by reema 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Leave him........and move on! You deserve better.
2006-12-14 02:57:25 · answer #1 · answered by cold runner 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hmmmm.... if he has cheated on you then it's over. There is never an excuse for cheating and if he did then you better not get married. Move on because you deserve so much more than that... every woman does.
If he hasn't cheated on you and he doesn't want to get married... keep in mind men think of marriage like this:
marriage = financial responsibility + family responsibility + risk of loosing stuff in the event of a break up.
2006-12-14 03:00:31 · answer #2 · answered by whathappenedamber 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
expensive chum, i'm fairly sorry for the inability of your father and mom, or maybe even with the truth that many human beings would say it yet no you ought to fairly sense the way you'll have felt and are feeling now. related to your question, enable me get this without delay as you probably did not stated it somewhat more desirable element, you stated he fell in love consisting of his instructor, so this signifies that you both are nonetheless in college or college. Did he like proposed to his instructor and he or she customary and they are literally fairly BF-GF sorts. because if he did not proposed or informed her about how he feels for her, then its no longer a courting and he only may have a touch weigh down on her which boys his age have on older matured women the picture of a few ladies have on human being college surpassed boys. So if he's having a touch weigh down on her then you actually ought to examine with him, and help him get over it, as that courting will under no circumstances exercising consultation, she will be able to no longer settle for this. and under no circumstances imagine of ending your life, it is a loopy concept. Its your life, it does no longer remember on some stupid boy who does no longer even understand what he opt to be after he pass out of faculty, or what he will do consisting of his destiny, all he cares about that he will ask his day for a motorbike and he will roam round city consisting of his friends and go see that movie or purchase that watch, or placed on a canines tag like he became in American military, he does no longer even understand how demanding he may ought to paintings to even get a motorbike on installments. cool down, take a deep breath, you're a woman yet you aren't to any extent further week, and also you don’t want approval or appreciation from everybody to stay NO, its your life female go appreciate it, finished your study, get a reliable job and stay your life.
2016-10-18 07:02:25 · answer #3 · answered by leong 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sadly, this man was only ever after sex, it was not love but lust. You have to walk away and hold up your head and put this down to experience. Do not give your body to anyone unless you are sure that they are going to return your love. Find someone worthy of your love then, love making will be very special indeed
2006-12-14 12:03:07 · answer #4 · answered by rockandrollrev 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a lawyer and sue.
If there is a child on the way he must support the child for 18 years it is the law. DNA will say he is the father. Do not get married to him.
2006-12-14 06:36:12 · answer #5 · answered by minootoo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is that the kind of person you want to spend your life with? Think out of the box...think ahead 10 or 20 years.....how will things be with this person?
Don't let him belittle you....be your own person and find what YOU want....
2006-12-14 03:05:33 · answer #6 · answered by chad_zortman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave his sorry ***. you don't need this. Take some pride in yourself. He cheated on you and has the nerve to act like an ***? No-one deserves this.
2006-12-14 03:07:09 · answer #7 · answered by wifeofkerron 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't put your boyfriend on the spot for something that you also enjoyed, next time keep your pants up, and enjoy sex with someone who you'll know that will return the favor
2006-12-14 03:53:54 · answer #8 · answered by kylee c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
now a days you dont need to marry someone to be able to have sex with them, give him some space if you are meant to be together then you dont need marraige to tell you that. good luck
2006-12-14 02:58:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk away. He does not sound like he is worth your time. Also next time do not sleep with your boyfriend until you have married him.
2006-12-14 02:59:28 · answer #10 · answered by Mystic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm go back 2 skewl and start 2 act lil kool and get anotha bf.! lissen why did u hav it befo marrige u juz ruined ur whole life god damn!
2006-12-15 12:48:49 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋