my ex and i broke up a while ago. he says hhe loves me . he says his heart is with me n will always be.he sed if u love some one let them go if they come back there always ures. i have been a cow to him since we broke up because i didnt know how to deal with it. threatening him with various things, which i regret totally.
he now says he needs to 'find out who he is', his 'heart is with me but his head isnt' and 'circumstances mean we cnt be together at mo' becaus he cant forget the bad stuff that happened at the end. some explanations please. is he needing this time to forget the bad stuff , if so do u think he ever will? or can if he LOVES ME
the whole purpose of not finding somone knew is thti love him and know it can be gd
i asked if he waNts me to move on , and he sed no he doesnt but knows he cant tell me to wait.
he says his heart is always with him but his head not with me at the moment. dont say he doenst love me . he says he does. HE NOT A BULLSHITTER THE LAST 2 YRS .
2006-12-14 02:03:24 · 6 answers · asked by lola f 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You can not make someone stay in a relationship with you if the does not wish to do so. Let him go for now and do not behave in a way that will push him away even further, because this will only make reconciliation impossible.
Also, find out who you are, be your own person and do not base your identity on being part of a couple, you are a whole person by yourself. with a mind a heart a soul and a brain.
Leave him alone for now. He wants out. let it be and move on with our life,
be brave darling, we have all been through this. it will get better!
Irene
2006-12-14 02:11:21 · answer #1 · answered by artist-oranit.com. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO ONE CAN GIVE U THE ANSWER YOU R LOOKING 4. U NEED TO LISTEN TO YOUR HEART. DO U FEEL HE IS WORTH WAITING 4? I THINK U SHOULD TRY TO MOVE ON THE BEST U CAN. DON'T CALL HIM ALL THE TIME DON'T ALWAYS ANSWER WHEN HE CALLS. KEEP YOUR OPTIONS OPEN. IF HE DECIDES TO COME BACK AND U STILL FEEL THE SAME AND HAVEN'T BEEN HIS DOOR MAT THEN GO 4 IT, BUT DO NOT SIT AND WASTE YOUR LIFE WAITING 4 HIM. HE MAY NOT COME BACK. WOULD IT BE FARE FOR HIM TO GO AND FIND HIMSELF AND NOT U FIND YOURSELF?
2006-12-14 02:17:11 · answer #2 · answered by ROSIE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
feels like he's attempting too demanding to play the fantastic guy and make it easier to down common really of stepping up and telling you the truth. "i appreciate you yet we may be able to't be at the same time on the instantaneous" translates to "you already know... i fairly do not opt to sit down down right here and hear you cry and cuss and bawl if I inform you that I only fairly do not opt to be with you." "i want to locate who i'm" translated potential "look, i don't like who i'm at the same time as i'm with you, so i want to locate somebody else." "My heart is with you yet my head isn't" translates to "hey, can we nonetheless be 'friends with advantages' till i stumble on a sparkling female friend?" it is likewise in the back of him no longer desiring you to pass on. actually, settle for that this courting is over, carry with you the teachings you've realized from it, and pass on consisting of your life. at the same time as the "today" word is tossed round, do not ignore that "the right second" will under no circumstances come, and do not waste your life waiting for it.
2016-10-18 06:59:54 · answer #3 · answered by leong 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at the moment love love is enough
2006-12-14 02:06:30 · answer #4 · answered by wrfab 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it time take it steady i think i answered a similar question before
2006-12-14 02:06:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow tour heart .ussualy love is enough
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2006-12-14 02:05:16 · answer #6 · answered by john doe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋