I agree, it IS disrespectful, especially since you are not included and are in fact, ignored. The important thing is don't approach him when you are upset or angry about the situation. Instead, when things are calm, tell him there is something you need to discuss with him, and CALMLY tell him that it hurts to you when this happens, and you feel he isn't respecting you when the other girls don't really try to be civil to you.
2006-12-14 02:00:19
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answered by donnabellekc 5
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Just as you have here, talk to him and tell him of your feelings. And if he is unwilling to change things, then go out and find some male friends to hang out with and see if this is ok for him to deal with when the shoe is on the other foot. Of course this is not acceptable behavior from your husband. He needs to get a grip and decide what he is going to do. Be a responsible and loving husband or a ladies man. God bless****
2006-12-14 02:06:33
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answered by ? 7
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It is not okay. It's one thing if they just talk at work as co-workers, but outside of work and if the cozy up to him then that is breaking the co-worker relationship. co-workers are co-workers and that is it. If it is turning into something like he is doing then you need to say something because it is extremely disrespectful towards you. He needs to know this and stop doing it. Sit him down and tell him what's up. If he truly loves you and cares then he will stop it with this nonsense. Good luck.
2006-12-14 02:06:30
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answered by Jennifer W 2
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yes it is conversation at work is one thing but after work and hanging out with them is wrong to you his wife and if the shoe was on the other foot he would probably have a fit and would swear up and down that you were cheating i would confront the situation head on and tell him how it makes you feel and if no changes then i would makes changes i mean if you start hanging out at the mall or something to just occupy your time like a gym to work out your frustration then let him wonder where you r
2006-12-14 02:01:24
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answered by anthony i 1
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well.. yes if your married then thats not cool at all.. they have to respect u and it starts with your husband .. he should find some guy friends and keep it moving.. but for you .. you have to approach it in a smart way .. if youve told him about it and he hasnt stopped then find a different route .. another option is to make him feel how you feel.. set it up where you hang out wit some single guys and see how he reacts .. if thats to risky .. go on strike and stop doing house work..lol.. but dont give up !
2006-12-14 02:04:10
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answered by pivotalperson111 3
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Why won't be able to you come to a determination in case you're mad or no longer? the two you're or you at the instant are not. there's no "could" to it...in case you're asking in the experience that your anger is justified, i could say that's if he didnt' assist you recognize he replaced into going to be out all nighttime, if he does it often, and if he would not assist you a similar courtesy. As for why won't be able to you flow out including your mates? Why do no longer you merely tell him you're going, and then do it. he's have been given no top to fuss approximately it when you consider that he does it together with his pals. what's the situation there? Staying out all nighttime isn't kewl if he's a married father...that's somewhat helpful to communicate that habit with him. i would not discover that ideal in any respect, till it replaced into the very uncommon going out with acquaintances and getting too looped to tension domicile...
2016-12-30 09:47:30
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answered by everitt 3
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Well as someone who generally does NOT get the attention of females, I still think he owes you the respect of keeping them at arms length. He probably loves the attention (doesn't everybody) and doesn't want it to stop, even if he never actually does anything.
btw maybe they are not friendly because he has said nasty things about you? Or maybe it's because you give them the Evil Eye?
2006-12-14 01:59:49
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answered by fucose_man 5
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Is your husband interested???
If he isn't, then maybe the two of you should see about getting a girl or two round to your house and he calls their bluffs... See how far they'll go... Will they get naked, will they give him a BJ, will they have sex with him??? And film it... Then you turn up with camera/camcorder in hand and tell them to pass the news that he is out of bounds or the film gets sent to people at work... The news will soon spread... :D
2006-12-14 02:02:01
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answered by Forlorn Hope 7
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They will be the end to your marriage unless things change! You need to tell him how you feel and be prepared for him to be pissed. Workplace affairs are the worst!! Because for 8-10 hours a day you are clueless on what is going on!!!! Good luck.
2006-12-14 02:02:36
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answered by boohoo 4
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It's okay if he is not lying to you about it or because of it. But my husband is the same way. He thinks it's okay if he does it but would have a fit if it was me. They are all 2-faced, even the good ones.
2006-12-14 04:02:15
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answered by Tracy C 1
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