shud i ask him to give me the password to the new email account he has opened? or will it luk like i dont trust him if i ask him?
2006-12-14 01:44:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
something as small as passwords should'nt be a real big issue unless you do feel he is hiding something,,,computers are somewhere all sorts of things can happen,good, bad and ugly and he may be one of those people who feel their right to privacy extends to his emails and what he does while on there,,dont worry over it now,,,,in a few days/weeks/years he may just ask you to check something for him and you will realize he has been hiding nothing,,dont worry over something like this,it will eat at you,,if you do feel strongly,,give him yours or just ask him to check your emails for you,,showing you feel nothing of sharing private things,
2006-12-14 01:55:03 · answer #1 · answered by lex 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You two are married. If your husband was hiding something, you as his wife, should be able to pick it up in a heartbeat.
You both are entitled to your own privacy. And if you ask him, he might think you are taking that away from him. Because if he says "no." You are going to say, "Why? Do you have something to hide?" Then you two will get in a huge fight. So avoid the bull and don't ask him.
If you really wanted to know his password, try to crack the code. Being his wife, it shouldn't be too hard for you. But don't ever tell him, b/c then it looks like you don't trust him.
2006-12-14 02:22:34 · answer #2 · answered by Rica 82 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-14 22:30:23 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has nothing to hide, he shouldn't have a problem with it.
It does convey the sense that you don't trust him though. Why do you need his password anyway unless you intend to check up on his activities.
Do what you must though to make yourself happy. Just be sure that you don't end up pushing him away in the process.
2006-12-14 01:50:49 · answer #4 · answered by Ritz Grimarren 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Married for 13 years and we know each others passwords. Nothing to hide, nothing to lose.
2006-12-14 01:55:56 · answer #5 · answered by comeundone4162 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Married 6yrs over here and I still have no idea what his passwords are. Hell, I don't even know his PIN to the joint bank account.
I don't feel I need to know, but I do have the right to know.
2006-12-14 01:51:03 · answer #6 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm good questions. my husband and i know each others passwords. i really woundn't want him to feel like he needed to sneak up and check it, but i think it is nice to have. peace of mind in the fact that he is willing to give it, i guess.
ask him for it???
2006-12-14 01:51:36 · answer #7 · answered by don't be rude. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it I think it is not a good idea even if you love your couple so much you don't have to be complete open with him.....you don't know what gonna happen in a couple of years....think about it....don't be so invasive...☻
2006-12-14 02:12:58 · answer #8 · answered by haki 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my husband and i just have one email address we share so there is no password to worry about.
2006-12-14 02:03:27 · answer #9 · answered by christina c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him!!!!! if he wont give it up then he has something to hide, and if he gives it up willingly than he has nothing to hide. so good luck and remember that everything all comes out in the end!
2006-12-14 01:55:56 · answer #10 · answered by aubrey <3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋