2006-12-14 01:42:56 · 36 answers · asked by Rico Suave 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
That's common. Sounds like almost all of my ex-boyfriends.
The sex might be good at first, but it won't last. Closet cases are horrible in bed, really - they don't know how to appropriately return the favors.
I'm not sure about the right answer. I heard many people just say to 'leave him.' It depends, I think. How much do you really like this guy? If he's worth saving, then confront him about it- not us. If not, then just let him go.
2006-12-14 02:04:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Know this if a man will disrespect you in public, he will not respect you in private either. DON'T DO IT!!!! He will not respect you...in fact, the little potential that exists of him ever gaining enough respect for you not to make fun of you in public will go completely away if you let him get away with it and even reward with sex. Don't disrespect yourself, or he will never learn to respect you. If he doesn't learn to respect you then you need to get rid of him asap.
2006-12-14 01:48:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
"Do what thou wilt is the whole of the law."
I am straight, but I believe I can help you out. Okay, first of all consensual sex is okay especially if used for inner seaing however, only if it is your Will. If you want it and so does he then go ahead but it isn't good for you to get in a relationship with him because he doesnt respect you oviously, however you can try to talk to him, tell him that it makes you feel uncomfortable. Communication keeps things a strive.
"Love is the law, love under will."
2006-12-14 01:48:43 · answer #3 · answered by Frater K.H.A. Zelator 1°=10□ 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
if its just a sex thing with you fine, but with most people it usually isnt chances are that if you do have sex with him he will still disrespect you, and the things he is calling you are hurtful, so i would say dont give your body to some one who doesnt see your worth. dont take chances with him cause all he could pretty much do is keep trying to hurt and embarrass you in public
2006-12-14 01:57:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
nooo if u have dignity for urself.. u shouldnt have a guy treat u lyk that he should luv u in public 2 u hvae to have respect for yourself... there s plenty of other guys out there
2006-12-14 03:18:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never in a million years. Don't disrespect me by using those names anytime.
2006-12-14 01:49:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he has some serious control issues. I'd tell him get his act together or drop him like a bad habit.
2006-12-14 03:11:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are adding more fuel to the fire by continuing to see this man. Don't have sexual relations with him. He will only become more abusive. Move on so you can meet someone who will appreciate you.
2006-12-14 02:06:03 · answer #8 · answered by Ozzie B. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO.. that is degrading yourself... he is using you.. sorry to say it like that.. but if he can not respect you in public then you are wasting you time!!!!!
find someone who will treat you good all the time not some of the time....
good luck
2006-12-14 01:46:15 · answer #9 · answered by laceylu555 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If he cannot show you respect in public why should you have sex with him.....you would be foolish if you did...sounds like he is only out for one thing...to use you!
2006-12-14 01:45:17 · answer #10 · answered by Stacy H 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋