shud i ask him to give me the password to the new email account he has opened? or will it luk like i dont trust him if i ask him?
2006-12-14 01:40:53 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You need to trust him so no you have no right to ask.
Its like him asking you for the key to your diary
2006-12-14 01:43:19 · answer #1 · answered by Mike 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your question troubles me, in as much as I am worried about the success of your young marriage AT one year of being married, I would hope that you are both still very much IN LOVE and still very intimate and very often too. NOt already losing that intimacy and honesty which are major necessities in a marriage if it is to work. However though, if you have not strayed or thought ot straying after another woman , or heaven forbid had an affair with one other than your new wife, then you should have no absolutetly no secrets to need to keep against your new love and wife, so share and be honest with each other and keep no secrets from each other and then you will enjoy a good marriage, hopefully for many many wonderful years, believe me it is much much better to live this life with someone there to share life with rather than living alone. I've been with my same wonderful woman for over 26 years now and i have learned on my own that proper and open communication and honesty are most important in keeping a Marriage fresh and everlasting! I have 26 plus years of some good and some bad experiences throughout, however we are still together and happy overall.
2006-12-14 01:53:49 · answer #2 · answered by mastergold257 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats the deal with all these people attacking you on the "trust" factor? Me and I man both have each others password....no big deal......why should there be any secrets? I mean, really? And all these morons talking about "privacy"...what do you need privacy for? Email privacy? I am laughing at that one.
In actuallity, having each others passwords IS TRUST. And having each other's passwords is ONENESS, which is what marriage is SUPPOSED to be.
By the way, me and my man aren't married, but it sure seems to me we are a helluva lot closer than some of these so-called married people answering here.
2006-12-14 03:02:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You 2 are married. if your husband grew to become into hiding something, you as his spouse, could desire to be waiting to %. it up in a heartbeat. You the two are entitled on your very own privateness. And in case you ask him, he could think of you're taking that removed from him. because of the fact if he says "no." you will say, "Why? Do you have something to conceal?" then you definately 2 gets in a extensive combat. So evade the bull and don't ask him. in case you quite had to comprehend his password, attempt to crack the code. Being his spouse, it is going to not be too demanding for you. yet do certainly not tell him, b/c then it appears that evidently such as you do not have faith him.
2016-10-14 22:30:09 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't recall the marriage vows including anything about passwords. You will sound completely paranoid, of course it will look like you don't trust him. I think the big question is, why do you want the password? You sound like you have a reason to not trust him by posting this question.
2006-12-14 01:46:04 · answer #5 · answered by mystère 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like something may have happened in the past with your trust in him. I trusted my husband with his personal e-mail account. Then s*&t hit the fan when I found out that he was involved with someone. Not sexually! A lot of trust was washed away with it. If you trust him and he says nothing is going on, then don't worry. But if he gives it to you, give him yours, turn about is fair play!
2006-12-14 01:46:18 · answer #6 · answered by hey_there_heathe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are some things that need to be left private. I think you should ask yourself "why" you need to know his password? Have there been trust issues? Has he ever asked you for your password in the past?
I say leave it alone...
2006-12-14 01:44:43 · answer #7 · answered by M R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If theres nothing to hide why not?your husband is your behalf so you must have a complete trust to one another,and if your husband is giving you all his trust then he deserves your email passwords
2006-12-14 01:43:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think trust is the number 1 thing in a marriage. he should have already given it to you. i think that you should ask him. But he might get mad at you but don't let it bother you because if he wasn't hiding anything he wouldn't get mad at all. So go for at.
2006-12-14 01:45:58 · answer #9 · answered by aka na$$$***** 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. It's a big mistake when people marry they think the other has no right to his/her own privacy. Leave hispassword his and you keep yours. Despite the fantasy of the concept, you are TWO individuals.
2006-12-14 01:46:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋