2006-12-14 01:16:41 · 15 answers · asked by neutral 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Who knows, it could be many things, both good and bad.
They truly care for the new partner.
They found a wonderful person to commit to.
They fell in love.
Fear of facing the world alone.
Fear of never finding a new love.
Fear of growing old alone.
The only person that can answer this is the divorcee in question, and even then you might not get an honest answer.
2006-12-14 01:21:50 · answer #1 · answered by welches_grape_jelly 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
When I finally left my ex husband, I had already checked out emotionally. It took me a long time to realize it was OVER. Two months later I met a wonderful man. We dated, moved in together after a few months, I was pregnant 6 months after we met. That was 7 years ago and I never regretted a moment of our life together. Other than not being able to get married until our son was 6 months old b/c my ex kept "losing" the papers. It took my so long to leave my ex b/c i needed to decide what I wanted and what I wouldn't put up with anymore. I didn't rush into a relationship so I wouldn't be alone. I knew what I wanted and my husband has completly lived up to my dreams.
2006-12-14 02:46:08 · answer #2 · answered by Jennifer C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fear. Having gone through a divorce myself, I can tell you that at first this seemed like a very tempting option. But then I looked closely at the men I was tempted to get into a new relationship with, and I realized they were a lot like my ex-husband. It was obvious that I was attracted to men who weren't good for me and that I'd just get into another crappy relationship unless I took some time off and got my head on straight. So that's what I did, and it was the best decision I ever made. I guess it was courageous, if your definition of courage is "you're scared, but you do it anyway."
2006-12-14 04:24:35 · answer #3 · answered by Helen W. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they are grown and can do what they want. It may not be the wisest of choices. However, someone may do this for various reasons. Not knowing the individual I can not give an answer that would fit. Could be afraid to be alone, feels they are truly in love, etc.God bless****
2006-12-14 01:21:17 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just b/c the person recently divorced does not mean that the person had not emotionally left that relationship long before. A marriage can be "dead" long before a divorce is finalized.
2006-12-14 01:22:35 · answer #5 · answered by whatever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he's dashing into it if he's asking to kiss you on the first date, in case you kiss on the first date it truly is continually because you both favor to, no longer because easily one of you asks in case you are able to, I say go out with him for somewhat extra and if he starts off dashing into different issues extra severe than a kiss, then get out before you get harm.
2016-11-26 02:39:28 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old is the divorcee?If over 50m he/she wants someone to make his porridge or get his/her dentures.
If young,it always the s e x thing.
2006-12-14 01:30:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
They were already int he relationship before the divorce. They just kept it secret.
2006-12-14 01:21:39 · answer #8 · answered by jgbarber65 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they are probably so accustomed to being married that they can't function as a single person and need someone, anyone there for them day in and day out.
2006-12-14 01:23:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
They either feel they are ready or they do not like being alone
2006-12-14 01:19:14 · answer #10 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋