I just got a divorce.
2006-12-14 01:02:00 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Stay single and find yourself for a while until you are ready to give something to someone in a relationship.
2006-12-14 01:04:44 · answer #1 · answered by Dfirefox 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you explore the world and do the things that will make your life better, don't fall into a marriage so soon after the divorce. Take a long-term vacation and have fun because once you're married, it is fun but you have to think about your spouse first and many times she contradicts your expressions and ideas. Be patient and meet new girls and when you find the one that has the most in common with you, she will be the next one for you. But don't you be divorcing one after another. Make the right decision.
2006-12-14 09:10:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is best to do whatever feels right to you,,remarrying isnt the best thing to do right away if your feelings are still raw from the divorce but if you feel emotionally able,,do date,sometimes just spending time with the opposite sex can give you that 'spark' back,,the feeling of being attractive,of feeling wanted,,even if it is just to get you out of the house and with others,,,at the end of the day,,you married and the marriage failed but that doesnt mean the next time the same will happen,,keep your eyes open and enjoy you time as a singleton,part of a dating couple or in a serious relationship,,as long as you are honest with yourself you cant go far wrong.
2006-12-14 09:08:53 · answer #3 · answered by lex 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First you have got to find yourself! You are not the same person, as you were when your divorce started. Its not a get out of jail free card either, IMO. Take your time, have some fun, all the rest will fall into place, eventually. I doubt you would want to make the same mistakes again.
2006-12-14 09:15:26 · answer #4 · answered by whydiduaskthis? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are a Christian, as I am, then the only reason for divorce is infidelity of your spouse. NO OTHER REASON is acceptable to GOD! If she was unfaithful, then you are free to remarry without a doubt. My wife and I are so happy that I could not imagine every wanting to find another woman to be with. She is the GREATEST THING on EARTH! I am thankful that GOD vbrought us together and hope that you are also able to find such a person. Have a GrEaT HoLiDaY SeAsOn!!
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2006-12-14 09:12:08 · answer #5 · answered by Eds 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It all depends on you. If in the future you meet and fall in love with someone you consider you could spend the rest of your life with, perhaps you will want to marry again. This is something you can't predict though. I think a big mistake people make is they try to plan too much and love/other human beings are NOT predictable at all. Just be the best person you know how to be and see what life holds in store for you.
2006-12-14 09:08:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well just stay single for awhile you dont want to automatically remarry just have fun enjoy the freedom a little!
2006-12-14 09:05:13 · answer #7 · answered by « -â?¥â?¡m Ã?º$$ýâ?¥-» 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it was me, with 2 kids and being 37. I would just stay single. Dont need the headaches any more. Have fun and after a while find a women who is around your age who just wants to live together and want no kids.
2006-12-14 09:28:56 · answer #8 · answered by Shocker3:16 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll know the answer to that question when the time is right.
Since you are freshly divorced, I wouldn't worry about it now.
Celebrate you being single and free. Get to know YOU!!
I wouldn't dare rush into another relationship. You would only bring baggage from your previous marriage and that wouldn't be fair to your mate.
Date, have fun, be single and love it!!!
2006-12-14 09:05:24 · answer #9 · answered by Wife~and~Mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now just stay single. Or take one more risk of divorcing.
2006-12-14 09:06:40 · answer #10 · answered by rockylike007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋