Is it ok to watch porn without your wife or girlfriend knowing? please state wether you are male or female in your answer too. Thanks
2006-12-14 00:49:50 · 8 answers · asked by Nolan j 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I personally think it's ok. Since your sexual outlet does not involve another person you are NOT cheating. Your lady should appreciate this way of thinking.
2006-12-14 01:55:12 · answer #1 · answered by Ozzie B. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't suggest hiding something like this from your wife. If you are hiding, that probably means that you think or know she is going to approve of this. I'm a female, I would definitely get upset if I found out my boyfriend watches porn behind my back, we watch it together and I have absolutely no problem with it. But when you are in a relationship you shouldn't be doing things and keeping secrets behind your partners back.
2006-12-14 01:27:39 · answer #2 · answered by britt 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I watch porn without my girl, she doesn't always know when I watch it (sometimes I'm up at 3am and bored), but I don't hide it from her. She knows I like it, and she's woke up a couple times while I'm watching it. She isn't all that into porn, so it's something I occasionally look at on my own, and she doesn't mind. I don't feel the need to hide it, or tell her every time I do.
2006-12-14 10:56:14 · answer #3 · answered by Nate 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a female and I think it's okay. He knows that I watch porn and at times he watches it alone too. There is nothing wrong with it. It's a safe way to enjoy some you time.
2006-12-14 01:45:20 · answer #4 · answered by pq4u72 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a woman, and I have no issue with pornography. Neither does my girlfriend. We watch it together, often, to help set up an atmosphere for making love.
However, if you're hiding it from her, that usually means that she doesn't approve or you are ashamed of behavior, which means it can be dangerous to your relationship and/or to your mental health.
If you think you can talk to her about it, do so. Marriages are supposed to be about trust. If you don't think you can, find a counselor in your area and consult them to their professional opinion.
2006-12-14 01:15:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No !!! Try to find something that you can watch together. See what other people like to watch in their top 100 downloads.
2006-12-16 21:47:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you watching gay porn if you are straight?
I assume it's gay porn since you posted here.
2006-12-14 01:20:29 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Porn is your god given RIGHT!!
2006-12-14 04:50:58 · answer #8 · answered by a1tommyL 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋