Anyone knows support group for homosexual Muslims who want to change?

Question

I really need help, I hope anyone from this big community would help me to find a support group for homosexual muslims who want to change...

I'm so sorry, I just keep denying myself, I just keep justifying about me being gay. Now, I refuse to believe that there's a gay gene. I am sure that I didn't choose to be gay but I want to choose not to be gay. Anybody please help me.

thanks to God I never did any gay activities, I'm just tired of being alone in this, that's why I ned some support groups, in Malaysia particularly...

salam, i really hope noone ever speaks like i have screwed thousands of guys... to the girl from kashmir, i never myself agree with the term homosexuality, but i am a gay, and i need to change this... i don't believe either that there's gay gene, but i believe this happenes with some sort of childhood trauma i had... so, there must be a way to cure my attraction disorder...

please, no speaking like i am a real gay, i don't want to call myself gay, but SSA-er... I just want to know whether you guys know any support group for muslims like me who have become homosexual...

also don't start a reply saying it's haraam or not, whether it exists or not, i myself know for sure that it is prohibited in Islam, i just want to change!
I'm sick of people like this...

Answer 1

Should be easy to change.


What religion would you rather be?


Gay Christian is a popular choice these days. Many gay football fans have switched to Seventh Day Adventist so they can have Sundays free.

I have friends who are Gay Buddhists, seems pretty nice.

Answer 2

I understand the situation you are in. It is really difficult to be Muslim and at the same time a homosexual but you can not change who you are. Even if you have sex with women all the time, it would not change anything. I was in denial before and tried to change myself. Instead of helping myself I became more frustrated and depressed. You have to live with it and find ways to deal with your sexual desires. Some Muslims would even migrate to other countries that are tolerant with homosexuals. I suggest you try chatting online in Yahoo Messenger. There are a number of gay Muslims who chat online. You can try talking to them and probably find ways to live with your homosexuality.

Answer 3

Is this only because of the pressure you are under,or do you really believe you have to change?
When you are gay,I am sorry to say this to you:you will stay gay.
Do you think that ,even with the help of a support group,you will be sexually attracted by women?That dear will not happen.Where I live I know lots of Muslim men who had to get married and keep their men at the side.You could do that too.But once gay means you will stay that way,greetings:Rob.xxxx

Answer 4

Everyone can control himself if he wants to and don't listen to that crap "i'm born gay, once gay always gay" cause it's against human nature and u r the only one who can change yourself but u need to have a strong will...
So, stop doing homosexual practices if u have any, and try to get married.

Answer 5

Dear
i am a muslim girl from Kashmir and we are proud of a muslim state like Malayesia the people of which are true muslims and also very progressive, but today i am discouraged when i read your question and about you.

there is no concept of Homosexuality or gay in Islam and Islam says to do natural things, what you are asking for is un-natural and a curse.

Answer 6

You should visit http://islamonline.net for help about this issue.

Some links:

http://www.islamonline.net/servlet/Satellite?pagename=IslamOnline-English-Cyber_Counselor/CyberCounselingE/CyberCounselingE&cid=1120469514579
http://www.islamonline.net/servlet/Satellite?pagename=IslamOnline-English-Ask_Scholar/FatwaE/FatwaE&cid=1119503546996

Also, try this website, it's great, it changed many lifes:
http://www.narth.com/

Answer 7

Into what, dear? It's much better to accept and and to love yourself.