i mean seriously, it's the fastest and easiest way to find out what the other person thinks of you if your straight forward about it instead of thinking all the "What If's" right? people usually say girls shouldn't be the first ones to show their feelings but does it really matter whether your a girl or a guy?. do guys find it un-attractive when a girl is too honest about how she feels? or should she say her feelings directly? because i want to tell him my feelings for him.
2006-12-14 00:34:53 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
be upfront. Just don't be all " I want to have your babies" if you aren't together. lol that's being too out there! good luck! I hope it works!
2006-12-14 00:56:29 · answer #1 · answered by No_S_Kape 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I firmly believe that nothig in this world should b gender related and that men should not have more authority and power over woman. In this day and age we are all EQUAL. I believe that no one should beat around the bush or go around it, just go straight through it. If you tell a gut how you feel and backs away, it does not mean he does not feel the same way, he could just be scared as guys are three years behind girls in their maturity and he will just need time to adjust to what he has just heard. My current relationship when i met my boyfriend, I told my boyfriend striaght out about my feelings and 1 and a half years later we very happy.
Good luck with your man
2006-12-14 08:46:41 · answer #2 · answered by Minxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you. honesty is one of the most important things in a relationship, why not start being honest from the beginning? I think it's a relief when girls are honest and upfront about their feelings. it's tough to live up to the expectations that guys are supposed to make the first move. I say tell him. if nothing else, he'll appreciate it
2006-12-14 08:49:43 · answer #3 · answered by Alex P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've hit the nail on the head!
So Much more can be accomplished by being upfront and Just coming straight out with it!!
2006-12-14 08:37:44 · answer #4 · answered by J. Charles 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I totally agree with you.
And I don't like "What if" kind of game. I like to be stright forward. And also I am not scared to be rejected. There are thousand and thousand other chances out there. Only one is for me though. lol
But sometimes little bit of "what if~" or give some hint "I like you" or differnt flirt things can be cute and fun.
;)
2006-12-14 08:41:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl u so right.u have to say ur feelings about someone instead of thinking about it.i give 1,000 persent on that.
2006-12-14 08:41:51 · answer #6 · answered by Nana B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him, myself. Or if that is hard then get one of your friends to tell him, but its better coming from you. You could phone him, or text him!!
2006-12-14 08:38:06 · answer #7 · answered by dee bee007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I agree but I don't think you should get all mushy-gushy
2006-12-14 08:37:01 · answer #8 · answered by Bella 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just tell him how you feel. thats what i would do if i had strong feelings for someone.
2006-12-14 08:38:43 · answer #9 · answered by Nay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋