i think i have gone through all the emotions....i am just fed up...there is betrayal, lies even from persons you have loved the most.... now there is no desire to live...no happiness...my heart is broken...but i dont want to commit suicide..i have to live for my parents ....also i think it is not proper .... what i do ....
2006-12-14 00:29:22 · 15 answers · asked by rahool 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i think you have an answer in you own question..........you have a purpose to live your parents........so go ahead live for them......i think firstly it's great you r not thinking selfishly and u want to live for some one else......that itself makes you a great person..........one more thing that i really want to tell you is that you will find love again..........v all have soul mates...........so wait and don't get depressed............u r a gr8 person and life does not always show us the bad days..........really........trust me when you begin to show the world you good side the world will be a better place to live in...........just hang in there..........there will be a better tomorrow...........
2006-12-14 01:28:51 · answer #1 · answered by sasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Ashley, I see that you have several 'best answers' to your credit so some people certainly value your opinions and thoughts. If you're desperate enough to consider suicide then you might as well take a smaller risk first and just stop going along with your parents' demands. What's the worst that could happen? You haven't mentioned any physical abuse so hopefullly all that would happen is that you're grounded or they yell at you. If you believe that you're right, stand up for yourself. Sometimes it's worth being punished if you're taking back control of your self. Ultimately the only real freedom we have is the choice whether to be ourselves or not. Suicide is the solution of someone who can't see any other possibility. They're so wrapped up in the problem that they can't believe that things could change in a day or that a new idea might occur to them. You have to believe that you have the right to protest, even if non-compliance is your only method right now. While we're young our parents are very important and it really matters how they talk and listen to us but once we're older and more independent we can actually choose to never see them again if we don't want to. We can get good therapy to help us let go of past unhappiness and we can have friendships and relationships that allow us to be ourselves. Think of this as a prison sentence; stay strong, remember you're not alone, talk openly to friends or on here, it will be over eventually and then you're free.
2016-05-24 01:21:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you have to do is to accept that there are massive areas of life which is bad, created by bad people. But you, yourself know you are not a bad person and have to keep up all the good work that you do. No one person sadly, can change the world, but you can put god in to it and try to educate people on right and wrong.
We all at sometime have been hurt by betrayal, it is very painful indeed. But if the person that betrayed us, see the hurt and pain they have caused, they have then won, for they have achieved the desired affect. Hard as it may be, you have to show that they are nothing to you and that you intend to be strong. The betrayers and bullies of this world only do it because they know they can get away with it.
Your desire should be to live and look for those that have the same morals as you, you will find them I can assure you. You also should have the desire to go out to your enemies which is much harder, and say I love you, for then they will be ashamed.
We are put on this earth to do good, not bad, the good should assist the bad in learning good. No, dont take your own life, for it is NOT your own, it belongs God and not you, you are only leant to this life. It is not for you to take away something that is not yours.
Go on to Christian websites, start talking to people and learning from them and then try to do one good thing every day for those that you think you CANT love, for you will be surprised that you will actually love them as times goes by. So my dear friend, here is one friend you have just made, ME, now, look for more because they are out there.
2006-12-14 01:37:00 · answer #3 · answered by rockandrollrev 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just live life as it comes all want happiness right but all dont get it that doesnt mean u have to end ur life for these silly things..live life is a larger way socialse with friends go for bowling discs pubs dinner engross ur self in work do sumthing or the other okk
2006-12-14 16:19:06 · answer #4 · answered by nashaahot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its good that you realized that you need to live for your parents. No matter what, only they can give you true love and you must live up to thier dreams.
Put your past behind you, and spend some quality time with your parents.
Try meditation and yoga, it really really helps. Take up a constructive activity like painting, sports, music whatever may interest you.
2006-12-17 07:00:24 · answer #5 · answered by raindrops 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cowards die many times before they really die!!You have been through a rough patch,they are people in greater sufferings..look around you.Your most loved ones is your blood your parents don't punish them for no fault of theirs..Live up to the dreams they have seen in you..times change and the best will hit you soon..Be Positive and things will brighten up for sure..Cheers mate..
2006-12-14 02:00:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well rahul,u want moksha????do u know tat there r many people in tis world who r in more worse condition than urs.but they still carry on with their life.well everybody in this world passes through bad times and good times.i think u have passed the bad times.the good times r ahead.just see sourav ganguly(the former indian captain).he is an example 4 u.he was thrown out of the team.he was badly treated.but he never lost hope.he did his best 4 his future.and see he is back.dont b sad rahul.forget wat has happened with u.i belive god is with everybody.he punishes 4 any types of wrong deeds.he will guide u.forget the past,live the present and build ur future.pray 2 god.he will help u.b happy.
2006-12-14 01:35:32 · answer #7 · answered by king 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is that is bothering you so much you should have shaired with us . when some certain issues are frustrating you ignor them and leave everything to god , he will then tackle the problem . i know when you feel alone how is it like . dont lose heart there are plenty of friends and good times but its just the matter of time . be brave . we are here for you when ever you need us . hope we will soon talk . have a healthy life.
2006-12-14 01:37:28 · answer #8 · answered by gunchu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious????????if you are then read further-
moksha(literal meaning is detachment from the world), then surrendering yourself to the God is the answer. we as human beings are not perfect so we sometimes do certain things that are good or bad. This makes us pay for the wrongings in our next birth, hence, the circle goes on...so, when we worship GOD with pure heart, it gives solace and when our good and bad doings (karma) becomes equal, it spares us from this circle(chakra )of rebirth. That is how one can get moksha. My friend God is great, so instead of asking for sympathy from all of us here, pray to God. He creates and he preserves too.
2006-12-15 02:17:20 · answer #9 · answered by splash 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't even think about that!!
what you probably need to do is get away from it all. Try moving to a new place all by yourself and start a new life!! you will meet a lot of new people and build some new relationships!!
Take care and don't do something ur going to regret
2006-12-14 03:27:00 · answer #10 · answered by odlt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋