I've a good friend who has emerged from a painful divorce for a couple of years now and she's finding it difficult to meet someone again.
Part of the reason is because her job doesn't allow her to meet more people. Even if she finally meets men whom she can connect with, the men find it hard to accept her past and her children. By the way, she has two kids. She's hoping to meet more male friends but she doesn't know where to start searching. I suggested matchmaking websites but they were mainly for Americans and English singles. I believe she wants a practising Muslim whom she can connect with.
Can anyone give me appropriate advice? Decent advice, please.
2006-12-14 00:25:27 · 4 answers · asked by citrusy 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There is Masjid Al-Falah' club @Bideford Rd (Nadi Ummah Al-Falah) or NUAF.. You have to be a member, there is a little pool of single bachelor in their 40s. Other means, maybe approaching an ustaz about your friend's wishes to get married would help. Ustaz Azmi would be good, i believe. I don't know whether he can help or not but he seems like a good and helpful community ustaz.
In the end, its her effort & perseverance to find a good partner that will help her. Allah will help those who help themselves.
Be honest right from the start so the men could expect some added responsibilities and time to sink in fact.
Masjid Al-Falah Info
Bideford Rd #01-01
Cairnhill Place
Singapore 229650
Tel: 6235 3172
Fax: 6735 5580
Email: alfalah@alfalah.mosque.org.sg
Hope my opinions help. God bless you both.
2006-12-15 00:09:44 · answer #1 · answered by NurA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As someone who shares the same mother tongue as her, i know what you mean, however things will not be any different even if we have thousand of malay matchmaking websites around. In fact, you never know it may turn out to be worse, you know what i mean? Besides, most malay guys get turned off by married women, especially if they have children. Don't worry about her, she will meet someone else if its fated.
2006-12-15 13:55:06 · answer #2 · answered by PhiloPhobic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don you introduce to her some of your good buddies whom are not married yet...maybe they can click. Alot of ppl I know married their spouses upon recommendation from friends and they are happily married..
2006-12-14 08:29:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
then try malay websites, there's this guy, c g or something used to always send this website, dating4fun.com... but as its name, it isnt that serious.
2006-12-14 08:36:03 · answer #4 · answered by rhea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋