I have a bestie and we transfered to the same school(high school, for dif. reasons)... There, i found a new bestfriend and we really get along!! We became a group of 3 (me, my new friend and my old one)(but me and my new friend were friends first).... My new friend and old friend are very compatible.... so sometimes i feel leftout!!..... They started hanging out w/o me(b-coz i keep on getting out of place) Do i even have the right to feel bad towards them?If yes, which one? If no, What should i do.... if this keeps up.... i will have no friends!!?? Help!!!
2006-12-14 00:20:24 · 8 answers · asked by â?¡Jei-Jeiâ?¡ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
No dont feel bad about them, it'll make you feel bad about yourself even more.
Be the greatest friend and tell them your feelings, make plans to hang out more and be very active and interest in each others lives...make a point that you want you guys to as much as you could be threesome musketeers...
But its your effort to start, so be ready if there a bit slow on the up take. And if you have too many activities without them start finding activities to do with them...
2006-12-14 00:24:51 · answer #1 · answered by rhea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ait love,bin there done that.What u need to do is find a centre 4 your life,a sport,subject,boyfriend,God,something...if u have something u r pashionate about u will draw both their admiration and will b the centre o this threesome.it can b done,dont compete 4 either ones attention,u`ll lose both n feel cheep.go on,find your centre.goodluck.
2006-12-14 08:28:40 · answer #2 · answered by chipdtuth 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
three is always a crowd. you need to talk to your friends indivduall about this situation and be honest try to introduce another friend in to the group so there is four not three. i am sure if your friends knew you felt this way they would help you feel better.
2006-12-14 08:25:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to regroup and be a part of it all. Dont worry they will always be your friend regardless if they hang out with out you or with you .Move on
2006-12-14 08:23:19 · answer #4 · answered by Purplepassion9126 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its' clear these pple get along 2gather better than they do with you so I suggest that u talk 2 them about how u feel then u can take it from there.
2006-12-14 09:26:49 · answer #5 · answered by sasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is interesting well find another bestie
2006-12-14 08:23:45 · answer #6 · answered by Bella 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
balance honey,frnds r the most precious people
2006-12-14 08:31:12 · answer #7 · answered by cool 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can pick ur friends but u can't pick ur family..............find another friend
2006-12-14 08:24:57 · answer #8 · answered by bigpopi@verizon.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋