I have certain friends before. We were three. We've been together for more than 2 years. We were so close then. But suddenly, I felt that the first one has found new friends of her own. The other one seems so cold to me, we always argue even for little things, and she easily get angry with me even for me it was just a joke. One time I open my feeling to the first one, that others were ignoring me, but she said, for her, she didn't mind other people anymore, because she doesn't want to have problems about them. After that, I got the idea that I won't mind also other people, whether they like me or not. Then, next days, I felt like I was an outcast in our group. They didn't tell me anymore if they're going somewhere and we seldom talk. What I did was I slowly move away from them. I transfer my things away them them. Until the time that we have no talk anymore. Now they are very angry with me. I just want to have peaceful life but they keep on saying bad things. What shall I do?
2006-12-13 23:56:42 · 6 answers · asked by Strawberry 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You can't change what has happened. You have all moved into other directions. Sometimes friends grow apart because their interests change or they become more mature than the rest of the group. Also when guys become involved there is definitely a shift in their behaviour.
I can understand how you feel, your friends left you on the outside not caring about your feelings and just ignoring you. Their interests were probably diverted to something other then you. They now find you an easy target for their cruel talk, because they knew you before, they knew your weaknesses, and they knew how sensitive you were.
You have to stand up tall, disregard their remarks, not pay any attention to them, ignore them and their immature ways.
I would not waste any time on people who do not care about my feelings and who can so easily talk behind my back and not care about how it affects me.
These were not your true friends, they were acquaintances that you put too much effort into.
Be yourself and get on with your life.. let them talk , they will get tired of you not reacting to their verbal slurs and they will stop.
People who know you will not think bad of you, but will think bad of them for talking about you. They will make enemies without any-ones help. No one will trust them and they will soon become the outcasts...
get on with your life , be happy and meet some new people.
One sided relationships are not good for anyone....
2006-12-14 00:11:08 · answer #1 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore them
2006-12-14 08:03:25 · answer #2 · answered by auntsid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore them if that dosn`t work tell them to Piss off!
2006-12-14 08:08:13 · answer #3 · answered by bill a 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk it out
2006-12-14 11:21:57 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ TianaW 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You won't.
2006-12-14 08:01:40 · answer #5 · answered by escape 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shoot w/gun
2006-12-14 08:00:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋