I need to know why I'm so horny. I think of sex alot and I masturbate often (rubbing,water pressure from showerhead). The only thing I'm proud of is that till today, I've never given in to having sex, even with my ex-bfs. That's because I've certain values and ideas of pre-marital sex and I believe I'll never let my lusty feelings interfere with my morals. However, I need to know if there's any way to reduce my drive. I'm only 20 and at the rate I'm going and how horny I get everyday, I'm so scared that one day, eventually, I'm gonna lose my virginity. I also notice that I get even more horny whenever I'm feeling blue or sad about an issue. Is there any relation between depression and a high sex drive? Please help.
2006-12-13 23:28:16 · 7 answers · asked by Stranger In Paradise 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
oh for pete sake, not this early in the morning.
2006-12-13 23:31:40 · answer #1 · answered by St♥rmy Skye 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure about the second part, but the first part i think can be generally solved through not being part of popular culture. I don't remember seeing one really popular non-animation american movie that doesn't have sex in it. Yet, we look down upon people who do porn but not people who play violent video games... (Only in america is it more wrong to love people than to kill people.)
There's this thing in humans called mirror neurons (I think thats what theyre called), that inclines you to imitate what the masses are doing. This is why when you see tons of pictures of people yawning, you feel like yawning. If there's tons of people laughing, you start to laugh too, even if you don't really know the reason.
2006-12-13 23:42:40 · answer #2 · answered by Roka 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your lust lifts you out of your fear and depressed feelings.
I'll bet you are slim very active.You probable have trouble sitting still.Maybe you bite your finger nails or pull your hair.
I think the best thing to do is to first,write about your depressed feelings.Then write about your grief and regret feelings.Then fear feelings then lust feelings.
Write like you were writing a letter to someone or like you were screaming it to the world.Get your emotions involved.Then throw the letter away.
This should help.If it helps let me know and I can give you some more ideas.
2006-12-13 23:56:22 · answer #3 · answered by Sun 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No relation. You're just a horn dog and that's ok. Cam to cam action helps.
2006-12-13 23:30:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
even i sufffer from the same problem and what i do is that i try to control myself as moch as i can , ihave never had a sexual encounter and that is why we are more curious about it.
2006-12-13 23:38:18 · answer #5 · answered by karsh 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honey there is nothing wrong here. Enjoy yourself and keep your values.
2006-12-13 23:40:12 · answer #6 · answered by R W 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Where do you live? ..... I'll be right over. I can help you.
2006-12-14 00:11:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋