is it really possible?
2006-12-13 23:28:10 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Just say yes to everything.
2006-12-14 01:22:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is so easy I do not understand why guys do not get it. Women do not need expensive gifts or flowers always. What they really want is you. Kiss her for no reason. Say I Love you often and at not particular time. Hold her and watch a good movie just the two of you. Women just want your attention and to know that you care which most men are not good at. Have a long personal converstaion with her and open up about your feelings. And be honest always. Ask her if she needs help with anything. It is not hard to keep a wife or girlfriend happy it just takes a little effort on your part and if you love her and want to be with here forever then it wont be an effort at all it will be natural. Good Luck. And thanks for asking a question like that it shows you do want to keep her happy forever.
2006-12-13 23:33:02 · answer #2 · answered by Virginia B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course it is possible. Just treat her with love and respect and as if nothing else in the world matters but her. If you have problems, talk them through until you have a solution. Make sure she always has your trust and you always have hers. Tell her she looks beautiful. Do things around the house without her having to ask. I am not saying there will not be a particular moment where she is not happy, but generally, yes you can keep your wife happy.
2006-12-13 23:31:43 · answer #3 · answered by His Angel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is possible, just try not to make routine out of family life, try to be interesting for her as you did when you just started going out. Never take her for granted and be happy of each day you spend with her. Bring her flowers - without any reason, go out for walk at night - just her and you and talk about your past, some romantic or funny moments you had together in life.
Anything you do, be careful not to get in routine in your relationship, it always has to be fresh like the time you first met, as soon as it becomes routine there is no going back, it's beginning of the end, just matter of time.
If you can be all this and she is still not happy, then just leave her, that means she doesn't deserve you and she doesn't deserve to be happy, or doesn't want to be happy.
2006-12-14 00:04:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will make her miserable if you try.
Be a good husband, loving, supportive, and a good man. Create a space where she can be happy. If you try to make her happy, you'll end up becoming a spineless, caretaking wuss, filled with resentment, and actually make her miserable.
So you cannot _keep_ her happy, but you can create a marriage where she can be happy - but some of it is up to her!
2006-12-14 03:09:09 · answer #5 · answered by kheserthorpe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is certainly quite interesting regarding how women answer this questions versus how men do. It seems that there is a great difference in attitudes between the two sexes. The above answers reveal such gender differences distinctly.
2006-12-14 01:06:28 · answer #6 · answered by neutral 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i think that is an illusion but you both can go with the ebb and flow of marriage and appreciate the good and the bad times together. always tell each other you love them every day,hold each other and of course love making is important in a long lasting marriage,trust,truth.
2006-12-14 00:28:44 · answer #7 · answered by MJ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shower her with money and gifts!!!!!
Just kidding
I think as long as you are asking this question , that means you truly want to make her happy, so, don't worry, I'm sure you will.
2006-12-13 23:42:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES IT IS. I AM THE LIVING PROOF. KEEP THE COMMUNICATION ALIVE, TREAT HER WITH RESPECT, BE HER BEST FRIEND, LISTEN TO HER WHEN SHE WANTS TO SPEAK, SHOW HER THAT YOU LOVE HER AS OFTEN AS YOU CAN, TELL HER HOW SEXY YOU THINK THAT YOU ARE, EVEN IF SHE GAINED FEW POUNDS LATELY. SHOW HER THAT YOU DESIRE HER SEXUALLY JUST AS MUCH AS IN THE BEGINNING OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP! TRUST HER AND DON'T GIVE HER REASONS TO DOUBT YOUR LOVE. THOSE THINGS ALWAYS WORK!
2006-12-13 23:39:17 · answer #9 · answered by Stella 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ITS NOT A THING ABOUT ALWAYS BEING HAPPY...
EVERY RELATIONSHIP HAS IT UPS/DOWNS
BAD/GOOD DAYS......
ITS ABOUT KEEPING EACH OTHER HAPPY (TOGETHER)
HE HAVE TO DO HER PART AS WELL)
JUST LOVING HER, CHERISHING HER, AND AND BEING FAITHFUL TO HER FORSAKING ALL OTHER.. REMEMBER THOSE VOWS....
THATS ALL SHE SHOULD NEED..... YEAH AND SOME "QUALITY TIME" WHICH IS PRICELESS
2006-12-14 00:52:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always? probably not, most of the time? definetly. It takes creativity and assertiveness. Romance and attentiveness. I could go on and on..
2006-12-14 06:47:24 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋