I don't know what to do...a kiss is all that happened but i feel like i cheated and have no right to be forgiven. I need advice.
2006-12-13 22:56:52 · 10 answers · asked by Erin L 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Why did you kiss someone else? It does not happen without you also you could have stopped it. That means that somewhere in your heart you are not really in love with him totally. I don't know if you should tell him. What I do know is if you care about him you should not let it happen again. And if you do deside to do it again then next time tell him because you are not ready for him and he deserves to know. But if this is the first time and you are really sorry you did it then don't tell and make this work.
2006-12-13 23:38:45 · answer #1 · answered by Virginia B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You said this person kissed you, so presumably they initiated the kiss. Did you end it immediately? Did you make it clear that it was unacceptable and was never to happen again? Do you believe that they will respect your wishes? If so, then what purpose would be served by telling your ‘man’ (be that a husband or boyfriend)? None. It’s over and done with and you handled the situation. Move on with your life.
2006-12-14 01:14:19 · answer #2 · answered by kp 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should ask yourself the following questions?
1. Why did I kiss another person?
2. Do I want to go further with this new person?
3. What do I really want with regards to my current relationship?
If you decide to keep the current relationship then:
1. Forgive yourself
2. Repent (meaning to change one's mind; don't do it again)
3. Tell this new guy your decision to not go any further with him
4. Show this new guy it's over, by changing the way you deal with him
If you decide to end your current relationship then tell him of your mistake.
Telling him and staying in the relationship will only bring insecurity and doubt into the relationship.
2006-12-14 01:28:37 · answer #3 · answered by Jen B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If my wife did this I think I have the right to know, if you tell him the trust is semi salvageable if he finds out from someone other then you it can be gone forever! Do the right thing you have noone but your self to blame a kiss takes two people.
2006-12-14 00:06:04 · answer #4 · answered by jarrow t 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
1) Keep your mouth shut...carry your own guilt and forgive yourself for making a mistake.
2) Why did you kiss someone else? You REALLY need to answer this one...
3) DON'T do it again!
2006-12-14 00:49:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No dont tell him unless you want lots of questions and/or problems. Now if you enjoyed it and intend to continue then you need to tell him.
2006-12-14 00:06:55 · answer #6 · answered by fortyninertu 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
be honest and tell him. if it was just a kiss then you dont have to feel guilty to tell him but if you feel guilty then maybe you might just wanted more then just a kiss?
2006-12-14 00:26:01 · answer #7 · answered by hotty 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
a kiss is not a kiss unless it was a french kiss..u muss of lik it or u woun't of ask this question
2006-12-14 00:47:10 · answer #8 · answered by bigpopi@verizon.net 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
of course you should tell him.
2006-12-14 00:11:29 · answer #9 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
keep quiet...and behave yourself....
2006-12-13 23:43:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋