My husband is staying in u.s from past 5 months for doing MBA. at present we both are living in different countries. We were married since 4 years. From past 4 months, he is not calling or mailing me. When I call him or mail or message him, I am not getting good response. he is not interested in communicating now a days. and when he stayed here with me , he was cooperative and caring. why he is behaving like this now a days, Am I thinking wrong or he is working hard. Sometimes I feel he is working hard and some times i feel bad! Please suggest ! Why he is not communicating well. what was the problem?
2006-12-13 22:44:55 · 18 answers · asked by Lucks 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Go and visit him and expect the best. If he does not appreciate this romantic gesture then , yes, perhaps you should be worried. If you cannt visit him because it is completely unfeasable then write him a long and deeplky personal letter (not email) that mentions all the good times you had, old memories, when you met, what this means to you, what your hopes for your future together are, what you fears are and how you feel about the lack of communication. If he has strong feelings for you he will recognise that he cannot be blaze about this. Good Luck.
2006-12-13 22:49:46 · answer #1 · answered by thewarrinoates 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he is behaving like this then he needs to be neck deep in work. No call for the past 4 months means u need to think about it. Involve inlaws, r ur inlaws getting calls. If they r getting calls n u r not then act now. Go there check out if possible.
2006-12-13 22:56:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When guys don't call it usually means they found someone else. Hope this is not the case with you. Nobody gets too busy to call for 4 months straight.
2006-12-13 22:50:27 · answer #3 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe his MBA is in mastering booty arts! Sounds to me like your precious hubby is up to no good. I don't think he's devoting all his time to studying for his degree. Maybe you should make a surprise visit on him and just see what the fool is up to! I mean surprise surprise surprise like HONEY I"M HERE!!!!!
you'll have your eyes opened as to what is truly going ....once you've obtained this information then you make up your own mind as to what you want to do!
2006-12-13 22:59:34 · answer #4 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MBA is tough. maybe he is taking too much pressure. But 4 months is a long time. talk to him on the phone.
2006-12-13 22:51:35 · answer #5 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I go and visit my parents for a month (with my kids) my husband does not like to talk on the phone because he misses us so much. He may not be cheating on you, but just misses you a lot and he does not like to talk on the phone because it breaks his heart.
2006-12-13 23:23:45 · answer #6 · answered by KJ97Y100 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
on the bad side, he might have got a girlfriend. on the positive side, he might only get busy with his study. but he acted this way over past four months doesn't sound very normal, if i were you i would fly over to him and find out.
2006-12-13 23:00:42 · answer #7 · answered by FairGround 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't say as I blame you!!!! I would be wondering too. What is he doing??? He should be communicating better. Good Luck.
2006-12-13 22:59:41 · answer #8 · answered by winona e 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I m sorry.
I dont think it s normal . you can ask him straight.
also casually try to get a conatact there (relation /friend) do abit of private investigation.
good luck.
2006-12-13 23:07:34 · answer #9 · answered by Ellen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sorry to break it to you, but hes got another lady. If you aren't sure, u need to fly over there unannounced and see whos in his house!
2006-12-13 22:53:16 · answer #10 · answered by b 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋