2006-12-13 22:24:26 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
we fight most with the people we really like cause they are the one that can hurt us most...we take all words and actions they do so hard to our hearts and feel bad over this thats why....I think theres no relations that can be true and real without a fight or argumentations...
Love and hate stands real close to eachother you know....
those we love those we hurt most...
2006-12-13 22:28:40 · answer #1 · answered by sofiaa_k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
V fight with our closest persons coz v take them for granted. Our boss will say the harshest of words and we will nod our heads in affirmation but a slight provocation from our siblings or spouse n v start fighting..n v regret later. Ur asking this questions shows that u now regret after u hav fought with someone close. Take it easy, dont supress ur anger. U should let out ur anger but not on the people around u but there are exercises for this if u wanna know write again n i will answer.
2006-12-14 06:49:27 · answer #2 · answered by cindrella 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The feeling of closeness comes when their tunes are matched. Even though the tunes are matched, due to self ego and possessiveness the fight starts. If you feel that the fighting is not necessary with the very close ones, always try to give everything by not expecting in something return.
2006-12-14 06:35:14 · answer #3 · answered by sriram_rahi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a saying, that we always hurt the one's we love and another saying, we always take out our bad moods on the people we love. Why? I guess it is because we feel safe with them and know that they will not leave and will try to understand. Mind you, this is not good because we rely on that fact and that is taking advantage of them, we have no right to do that, but sadly we all do or have done. Fighting is NOT necessary, talking is, we just have to be strong enough to stop ourselves from engaging in this fighting and start talking
2006-12-14 09:52:55 · answer #4 · answered by rockandrollrev 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we fight most with people we are closest to coz we are the most vulnerable to them. they just manage to hit the spot. its like the world may wish us birthday or say someting nice we may feel good abt dat, but we feel the best when tehy say sometin nice or wish us. we are touched immediately, its just the opposite when its something bad..we may not care as much abt what teh world may have to say abt us, but what they say matter to us. coz they become a part of us and when they say stuff dat upsets us or we dont agree its like a fight within oursleves!! and that causes the maximum hurt or emotional and physical drain of energy.
well fight isnt a bad thing if we are still our senses when we are fighting, wit regards to what we say and do. if we manage to refrain from raking up the past issues and hurting each other .. we often end up many things we dont even mean, the objectve then is to just hurt the other person somehow... but if its really bad then the damage cud be irreparable.
but it helps at times to get out the frustration and one also needs to rmber dat we shud clarify what they mean or meant - when possibe coz we may miscontrue when they dint even mean anything like dat.
2006-12-14 07:01:29 · answer #5 · answered by Jinx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, people should learn to communicate. Talk with each other, agree to disagree, agree to listen and not interrupt. Fight fairly. Not yelling and screaming and saying things to be hurtful. This does nothing to resolve the issue, and only makes it worse. Keep in mind, a spoken word can never be taken back. Careful, the words that proceed from our lips. God bless****
2006-12-14 06:35:40 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Soul Connection! Can't share the person with anyone - so end up fighting or splitting up. Either way causes hurt!
2006-12-14 11:01:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fighting with a loved one is very normal and healthy in a relationship. It allows room for each of us to express our individuality and room to grow in a relationship by overcoming the obstacles of which you are fighting over.
2006-12-14 06:29:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wherever there is luv v find fights too.fights r just to show ones concern.
fites are'nt necessary as such.they cn surely b avoided by showing a certain degree of respect n understanding n also ignoring certain flaws in others.
2006-12-14 06:46:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not necessary but as long as you live together you have to disagree sometimes cause you don't think the same so your opinions will differ and that's how fights came about.
2006-12-14 06:29:34 · answer #10 · answered by auntsid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋