my ex g/f of 4 years broke up with me 5 wks ago because she was so stressed out with college,work,and dealing with anarexica etc;she wanted space,time alone(break up basicaly) I had a bad 3 wks feeling down and so on but i am ok now picked my self up and am happy,but she is worse feeling depressed allways asking about me calling and texting why if she broke up with me is she so down when she thought it would make her happy i don't understand i should be the one unhappy not her i would go back to her if we could talk about our problems but i said i would give her space is this normall i still love her so much and think she needs some time on her own i feel she would get back with me but she can't tell me any thoughts!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-13 22:03:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
see in the absence of a person only known the importance of him, so in the case of ur gf in ur absence she came to know who much imporant u r to her,so i think she wants u
and still loves
2006-12-13 22:10:07 · answer #1 · answered by rick hei 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has a lot on her plate, and needs help to get over her eating disorder, and she will have massive low self esteem. See if you can get some information about help groups in your area, give her the information and be there for her as a friend until she can get her head sorted out.
2006-12-13 22:13:42 · answer #2 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your gf is a troubled young lady. She needs to get some professional help....she probably loves you very much and is just having difficulty dealing with all the rest of the stuff going on in her life. Her having anorexia was the big clue....generally, anorexia is caused by emotional illness.....it is considered a psychiatric issue and is treated as such. So, if you truely lovely her...convince her to get some professional help and stick by her......I wish you both luck....
2006-12-13 22:13:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Diane S is right. Your girlfriend needs to get some psychiatric help. Some therapy. Maybe some medications. Convince her to go for the help. This is life-threatening. IF you love her, work on that. She can't give you much right now. Give her what you can.
2006-12-13 23:28:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is suffering emotional withdrawl and is not used to the big void left when you moved on. It's a comfort thing and not necessarily wanting you back but mainly wanting familiarity. You should let her ask to come back to you without you chasing. Sometimes people don't know what they have until they lose it. If you want her back then let her miss you until she decides to come back or you will be hurt with insecurity in no mans land.
2006-12-13 22:13:17 · answer #5 · answered by Pilgrim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're nevertheless youthful, the path of love is complete of ironies and could be very painful yet a miraculous gaining expertise of journey. you'll stumble on the thanks to modify in time and outgrow the immaturities. he will struggle through an same element. you need to nicely be solid and proceed to love him or unload him and get lower back at the same time at the same time as he realizes his blunders like no longer respecting you. from time to time we can't comprehend what we've were given till you lose it. purely wish it truly isn't any longer too overdue.
2016-11-26 02:28:40 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send her a Cheer up card via snail mail. Wish her the best and leave your phone number in the card. Then it will be up to her to call. It sounds like she needs a friend.
2006-12-13 22:12:03 · answer #7 · answered by bill a 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably does need time alone, but it's hard to do after being with someone. With the anorexia and everything, encourage her to seek some therapy.
2006-12-13 22:19:13 · answer #8 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She needs therapy and needs it NOW.
As for her being happy because she thought this was what she wanted, well that was apparently wrong.
Always funny how the troubled one cannot understand how their troubles don't leave. She needs help.
2006-12-13 23:21:24 · answer #9 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't the two of you take a break from each other....as for the anorexic problem..I think you should inform her family so she could seek some help...
2006-12-13 22:16:12 · answer #10 · answered by sayasyoulike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋