She told me she was pregnant!!a week before i was moving to another country!!!i didnt go because of tis!! She said she was preg b4 but wasnt!! She is really serious this time and has told numerous people bout it!!she even said her mam and dad knew and they wer happy about it!!But its so hard to believe cause we had safe sex all the time!! and the condon never split!!!
What should i do
2006-12-13 21:20:58 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
buy two pregnancy tests and have her take them both IN FRONT OF YOU at two separate times. and why did you stay with her if she has lied about it before? girls who lie about pregnancy are the worst and can never be trusted.
2006-12-13 21:30:27 · answer #1 · answered by somebody's a mom!! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life goes on even if she is pregnant...which she probably isnt judging by the fact she has lied about it before. Tell her you want to go with her to the doctor to take a pregnancy test. If she goes she probably is but I am betting that she wont. That should teach you that sometimes having sex isnt worth it if you cant trust the person. And by the way no birth control method is 100% accurate.
2006-12-13 21:33:37 · answer #2 · answered by dragonrider707 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you want to start a baby book for you and her and of course the baby and then go and buy a pregnancy test and tell her to take it because you want to save it for sentimental reasons.
Do not let anyone fool you into thinking that positive lines disappear because they don't, i have two pregnancy tests that i took when i found out i was pregnant with my now 5 year old son and both are still positive.
Good luck
2006-12-13 21:35:05 · answer #3 · answered by ஐ♥Julian'sMommy♥ஐ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Morning ailment" is only a euphemism. Nausea from being pregnant can come at any and all circumstances of day. it really is basically those who've no journey with being pregnant that imagine throwing up in the morning is crucial at the same time as pregnant, or that it really is a definitive signal thereof. it is also grow to be a television and film cliche. Is her era even overdue? Why is she going for a "examine up" really of shopping for a house being pregnant try like countless sensible female would? those are the questions that popped into my innovations. I want i ought to inform you to have self belief her, yet i have commonplace too many women to lie about being pregnant in circumstances like those. provide to pass with her to her "examine up". Say you opt to be there for the outcomes. See if she flinches.
2016-10-18 06:48:33 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my! You really have to handle this VERY carefully. If she is really pregnant, you don't want her to get upset, so don't accuse her of lying! Try looking for signs that could authenticate her claim. Is she:
tired a lot, complaining of pain in her breasts, not having her periods, moody, suddenly having changes in her skin & hair condition (e.g. outbreaks & oily/dry hair) etc?
These are pretty good indicators that she is really pregnant.
Ask her if you can go with her to her doctor's check-up or sonar - I think her reaction might tell you a lot!
And, about the safe-sex issue: There really is no such thing as a 100% safe contraceptive...
...except abstinence, that is.
2006-12-13 21:31:26 · answer #5 · answered by Elzanne 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
take her to planed parenting take a test if she's lying again be done with her go to the other country and send me a post card but the whole oh im pregnant is the oldest trick in the book to try to get a guy to stay with u
2006-12-13 21:42:27 · answer #6 · answered by J M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you know? Every time you have sex, you have a chance to get pregnant, no matter what protections you use. I hope you really like this person, cause you may now be connected to her for the rest of your life. Not judging good or bad, its just the facts.
2006-12-13 21:25:05 · answer #7 · answered by Dustpan1987 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask to see the ultra sound of the baby and medical report
Better still, take her in for the utltrasound of the baby and see it moving on the screen... or not
If she gets all defensive and won't go then move to that country.
2006-12-13 21:30:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was me i would be asking her to get a pregnancy test and taking it and showing you or go to the doctors with her in the room and get the test done their
2006-12-13 21:26:07 · answer #9 · answered by reeree 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her to the doctor and have her take a pregnancy test. If she refuses, it's safe to assume she's lying. So far all she's done is name witnesses that she hasn't produced.
2006-12-13 21:37:38 · answer #10 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋