Virgo & Cancer
When Cancer and Virgo make a love match, a strong, down-to-earth relationship with staying power is the happy result. This is a relationship with great potential to get better and better over the passing years. Both Cancer and Virgo are goal-oriented and disciplined. They are sincere and devoted to one another and share a strong sense of purpose. No lightweight love here: These two were not really built for flings! Cancer and Virgo deeply admire one another: Virgo respects Cancer's quiet strength and dedication while Cancer appreciates Virgo's keen adaptability and intelligence. These lovers may get off to a slow start, but over time, bonds will only grow stronger. The Cancer-Virgo love match prides itself on common sense and strong principles over fluff and inconsequential or fleeting connections. They enjoy the material comforts of life, but they will only feel good about their bounty if it has come as a result of honest hard work. There could be tiffs if Virgo becomes too critical for Cancer's easily bruised feelings; Cancer needs to understand that it's just Virgo's nature to point out what they observe, that it's not a personal attack. A Virgo may bristle at their Cancer mate's stubborn streak, but it's a trait that a patient and understanding love partner like Virgo could come to appreciate. Also, Virgo's urge to serve suits Cancer's affectionate, nurturing nature well. The Moon (Emotion) rules Cancer, and Mercury (Communication) rules Virgo. Though they're very different planets, they're both near the Sun and therefore always in one another's neighborhoods. The Moon is a mothering influence; it's about cultivation and fostering growth, which are both central concerns for Cancer. Mercury is all about communication, and it's an androgynous energy -- Virgo will adapt and take on the form that it chooses, the guise that best serves a situation. Virgo takes an intellectual approach to life (especially compared to the emotional Cancer), but still manages to be perceptive and intuitive enough to figure others out if they choose. Good thing for the Crab, then, that a Virgo mate can get a feel for devotion and domestic fulfillment if that's what their Cancer lover desires. These two won't argue about fulfilling one another's needs. They'll work at it and relish the rewards of their conscientiousness Cancer is a Water Sign, and Virgo is an Earth Sign. Earth Signs, true to their name, are down-to-earth, but they can also be materialistic and preoccupied with acquisition. The Cancer-Virgo love partners like to surround themselves with comfortable, well-crafted things. Water Signs rely on feeling and intuition, making Cancer the emotive force behind this relationship, in a subtle Cancer way, of course. Along with their desire for prosperity, their love of a fancy home life ensures that this couple will work hard toward this shared goal. Also, they're practical pair, and losing control is never really an issue. Cancer is a Cardinal Sign, and Virgo is a Mutable Sign. While Cancer gets things going, Virgo thrives on a changing routine of responsibilities and challenges. Because they're so ubiquitous, Virgo will find a place in Cancer's plans if they really want to. Virgo will keep in mind Cancer's plans, and will eventually bring results even if Cancer has moved on. What's the best aspect of Cancer-Virgo relationship? Their dedication to working toward the same goals. Both partners in this love match enjoy a stable home life and nice things, and Virgo truly enjoys helping Cancer along the way to achieving their goals. Their shared goals and desires make theirs a highly compatible love match.
Love & Blessings
Milly
2006-12-13 21:52:00
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answered by milly_1963 7
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If the Virgo is very much of a Virgo and the Cancer is very much of a Cancer, then there is definitely the possibility of developing some intense passions, and that cuts both ways, so making this a successful relationship is going to depend on the maturity and relation skills of the couple. If we stick to the archtypes, Virgo's fussiness/critical nature can be emotionally hurtful to an overly sensitive Cancer if Virgo hasn't grown to understand this, and Cancer's emotional nature can seem overly dramatic and stressful to Virgo if Cancer hasn't matured a bit.
At its worst, this can be a pairing right out of one of those maudlin romance novels. In committed relationships, sexuality tends to be intense (again, this varries, but...).
The word that best describes the usual case in such a pairing is 'intense', but how that intensity is directed and managed is going to determine whether or not the relationship lasts, and if it doesn't last... it will probably leave a mark:)
2006-12-14 03:28:45
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answered by Anonymous
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My friend is a virgo and her fella is also a cancer, they are still together after all this time they have been going out for four years but the amount of arguements they have had cancer are very moody ppl.......
but it all depends on how much you love someone and weither or not you are willing to give your relationship a go, no matter what the traits of yourself and your guy is... good look! =)
2006-12-13 21:19:45
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answered by Anonymous
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I am a Virgo and my husband is a Cancer and this is the best relationship I have ever had! The above description by Milly is spot-on.
2006-12-13 23:02:06
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answered by erika 2
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i am a virgo and my brother is a cancer...as far as sibling compatiblity we are good..but i havent really met any other cancers..so dont necessary know...virgo usually gets along with everyone though for the most part...but i know some signs i tend to have issues with...scorpio and i dont get along...
2006-12-13 22:04:40
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answered by michele m 4
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