ok here is the deal I have mixed nationally's ok I'm Latino/Japanesse/Jamacian/and American. I live in an all black neighborhood and go to a white privite school every body makes all these wise cracks about how im not black when i get home and im an imagrint and sh*t. and it pisses me the hell off. then when i go to school ppl think im gonna beat them up becuase im a tiny weeny bit darker . what in the hell should i do that wont result in violence
2006-12-13 20:11:25 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
My daughter has the same problem(im black and my husband is white), and all you can do is ignore it. It's all in how people are raised to see skin color instead of seeing whats inside. I will say to you like i tell my daughter, if they ask what are you, just say HUMAN!! we are all one race and thats the human race!!! Be proud of ALL your cultures, its what makes you different and different is a good thing, if we are all the same, then this world would be boring!!!! Keep you head up!!
2006-12-14 04:15:16 · answer #1 · answered by Who Dat Chic!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To tell you the truth theres nothing you can do, everyone is free to think wht they want its just how the world is. they sterotype people because they are insurce about themselves so they try to find something wrong with you that way they make themselves feel better then (its really sad).so just point out the facts, ex: dont u have anything beter to do? why r u so racsit? does it really matter wht my color is did you give me birth? your not god so dont judge me! get a life dont worry about mine! grow up! use simple things like tht once they see your confidence theres nothtin they can really do. you cant let them know tht it bothers you or they will use you sorrow against you. next time they do tht just ask can you change my color? or ok im blah blah blah ok so wht are u goin to talk bout me sleepin and eatin too? or try just because you get abused at home ddont come take it out on me! most of the time its true! just stand up for yourself let them know tht you wont stand for there crap or just ask them to there face why wont u leave me alone do u want my autograph? since im always top news, i might as well be famous. or ok im dark now wht.....,..? either way people gossip its how u handle it i wht counts if you let them know it doesnt bother you after a while the wont havein anything to make fun of
2006-12-14 09:40:51 · answer #2 · answered by butta77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.1 even if you are darker than them just love it...show off your tone...don't listen to what CHAPS SAY!!! You are beautiful no matter what nationality you are...make wise cracks back if you have...think about it this way...they are pale in the winter and dark in the summer. so apparently they wanna have you complextion!
2006-12-14 09:05:41 · answer #3 · answered by Beautifull 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore all the fools, dont lash out or you'll prove their prejudices right, get good at your school work, geeks are never violent are they,so theyll soon accept you i think, and if you get good marks all through school you can leave all those white loosers behind when you get a better job than them. go girl
2006-12-14 05:08:30 · answer #4 · answered by blakorkid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey hun,
I can completely relate! Ignore -- they want a rise out of you...you're the classy one. It's complete jealousy.
Good luck
2006-12-14 07:02:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
theyre just back water and jealous that you are biracial. I think its really cool that you are a mixture of all those races and you should be proud of it!!! Just because some people arent open minded doesnt mean that you have to be ignore their immaturuty and racial intolerance and be proud of who you are!!
2006-12-14 06:21:33 · answer #6 · answered by miss89 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ignore the idiots, sounds to me like they are jealous, you are probably prettier than they are. Just learn to accept their ignorance because it probably wont go away.
2006-12-14 08:05:14 · answer #7 · answered by Urchin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just walk away! they're not worth it. They're so bored that that's their only way of having fun! You should pity them for not having anything better to do. You just go on with your life and when they talk to you just smile and walk away. proof to them that you're much stronger than them in other things! good luck!!!
2006-12-14 07:10:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore them! Its awesome that you're so many races! If you act like you're proud of it, they won't have anything to make fun of you for.
2006-12-14 06:33:56 · answer #9 · answered by countrygurl587 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore them and be happy about your nationality
2006-12-14 09:21:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋