2006-12-13 19:09:43 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Maybe he doesn't treat you according to your expectations. Don't worry a lot of married women feel this way because they were most likely treated better by their past relationships. Some men are just plain and don't really bother expressing themselves as much as others.
2006-12-13 19:39:36 · answer #1 · answered by ♪♫♫♪ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is apparently, something about your husband's behavior that states, nonverbally that something is absent from your relationship. You need to plan to spend more time together to build the intimacy you may feel is missing from your marriage. If he is not making you feel attractive, better communication between you is needed. Teach him a new way or ways to express his attraction for you that you will be able to appreciate more. You must identify the source of this feeling that your husband is not being honest with you in some way.
2006-12-14 03:24:52 · answer #2 · answered by Jess4rsake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that all depends on how he treats you. if he treats you in a manor that is not conducive to a loving relationship then it could lead you to believe that he doesn't find you attractive. it is strange though that you feel that you are pretty and fun.....but you still think your husband thinks otherwise. those kinds of thoughts are usually held by someone with low self esteem.
2006-12-14 03:12:41 · answer #3 · answered by beckdawgydawg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What? I don't understand what you are saying----he says he does but you don't think so---you need a hobby or a job or something to occupy your mind. The man married you didn't he?Doesn't that say it all---you must have left out some details. It is possible you are subconciously not happy with yourself or beating yourself up over something you don't want to confront...you need to evaluate this situation and get past it. You need to stop with the drama and get busy with the man who says he loves you and still finds you the most attractive thing in his life. Merry xmas
2006-12-14 03:19:18 · answer #4 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, Most of us women all share these same feelings after a few years of being married. Sometimes its only a few months and we feel that way. It could be the way he looks at other women or just an insecurity you have. No matter what the reason is just remember you are not alone! Odds are he still thinks you are a hottie! Just keep your sex life exciting for him and things will be fine.
2006-12-14 03:15:53 · answer #5 · answered by buzzbait0u812 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time and more time goes by and guys think that they do not have to show so much attention. Or just low self-esteem, you don't have to have your husbands approval, you are beautiful. If you feel the need for your husband to tell you are beautiful than you can't tell your self you are beautiful...I don't know. Just listen to him, they don't lie all the time!
2006-12-14 03:15:12 · answer #6 · answered by Dre C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, probably it's just all in your mind, it may not be true... Maybe he does think you're pretty and funny, probably even more than that! Just remember that men don't express there emotions like howt we women do... Cheer up! Don't dwell on those stuff...
2006-12-14 03:14:48 · answer #7 · answered by Belx2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you have no self esteem and pride
Once you grow a backbone you will never need an answer to this question
2006-12-14 03:15:37 · answer #8 · answered by jhvesterjr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
same here. before marriage where were 10 to 15 guys back of me and my hubby said i m going to be the lucky man and now.....
he dont even say i m pretty
2006-12-14 03:16:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u cud start by believing what u think. does he do anything that contradicts what he tells u? why wud u feel like dat otherwise?
feel good abt urself and u will not care so much as to what others think abt u.
2006-12-14 03:14:53 · answer #10 · answered by Jinx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋