My fiance has been living in california and is comin to spend christmas and new years with me. I am planning on cooking him a great meal when he arrives, also running him a bath so I can wash his back etc, what other thoughtful and romantic things can I do to let him know that I love him and to make him feel appreciated? We dont get alot of time together so I like to make the time we do have very special. Serious answers only please.
2006-12-13 19:03:03 · 15 answers · asked by BlondeBarbie 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
First of all I think its WONDERFUL that youre putting so much thought into this. It shows a sign of a start to a fabulous life together. One of the very most important things in a relationship is WANTING more than anything to make your partner happy.
First of all, men respond a little differently than we do. They respond a lot to touch. He wants to hear the sweet things you say to him, your deep conversations and great communication, but men feel so loved just by your touch. I know this isnt being very specific, but just a thought... (im sure your planning on touching him plenty anyway!!) Even just rubbing his back while you talk... letting him hold you and not let go while you sleep... it will make for a wonderful time for the two of you.
2006-12-13 19:58:46 · answer #1 · answered by Christines256 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
If you'd just like to make him feel special I would just plan a romantic evening possibly weekend while he's in town, the dinner and the bath.. sound like a great idea, maybe rent a suite at a nice upscale hotel and completely deck it out with some flowers and candles, rent his favorite romantic movie and get some wine/champagne and maybe give him a little back rub. Men really fall for mushy mushy stuff like us women do too!
2006-12-13 19:11:14 · answer #2 · answered by nkkidw040602 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being that you do not get to spent time with him that much Quality not quantity. So make sure you are doing memorable things also remember music, candles, ambiance is definitely a good link to emotions.
Lots of communication because what you might want to do may not be his idea of quality time. Remember men and women have different ways of expressing romance also.
Also keep in mind that there is a large amount of distance and time so things may not be as they were when you last seen him.
Last but not least B. U. don't over do it. Undivided attention and listen very closely to what he says and follow up. He will appreciate the fact that you remembered.
2006-12-13 19:21:54 · answer #3 · answered by Ecala 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Forgive me for being so crass but how long is your separation and when do you plan on being married? Long ramge relationship---a permanent deal? When will you give some thought to what he's doing when you are apart? Sounds odd to me.
NOW, on the bright side---I hope you will be together forever and it all works out for the best. Simply seeing each other and actually talking face to face, dining as a couple, touching, loving...what more is there? What is he going to do for his queen? This isn't a competition--just be natural, enjoy the holiday spirit, let things just happen.
Have a really nice xmas and good luck.
2006-12-13 19:12:27 · answer #4 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seriously, the few times where I was separated from my wife for long periods of time, this is what happened.
I would get home, we would hug for as long as we could still stand.
Have the place nice when he comes in, maybe some light mood music and the well cooked meal is an awesome touch. Talk with him. He will feel great if he knows you genuinely care for him.
2006-12-13 19:09:50 · answer #5 · answered by khanofali 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Four play sex maybe or a sexual activity that takes along time to complete.
For an example I would kiss you on every inch of ur body slowly. Making sure that i get from head to toe.
I saying this is what i would do to a girl. but may think of something!
ALSO rap yourself in a big red bow and leave rose dropping at the door for him to follow so that it will led him to his x-mas gift surprise!
2006-12-13 19:09:25 · answer #6 · answered by ej942 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You can also give him a back rub, talk to him, ask him questions about his life, and actually listen to what he has to say. Maybe take a bath with him. Maybe watch one of his favourite movies with him while cuddling. And you know that watching movies don't mean just watching movies. Sorry if these sound cheesy, that's what I would do with my boyfriend.
2006-12-13 19:08:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
OK lot of them really I will put a few here and leave it to you to get back to me for more if you find them interesting....
1. give him a massage
2. Take him for a walk on the beach and give him a good experience
3. buy 2 small photo frame that can have your pics as couple and give one to him and the other for yourself
4. give him a waterbed sex experience
lot mroe
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2006-12-13 19:08:27 · answer #8 · answered by Sameer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So funny how Coley immdiately goes to her own pleasure. You are quite right in looking at life this way. If both people look for ways to please each other then things go very well.
Men love fellatio. Perform this for him with love.
2006-12-14 05:39:34 · answer #9 · answered by onlineseeker 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Give him the best b/j every hour on the hour without him askin.
2006-12-13 21:07:05 · answer #10 · answered by CRUNKMAN 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋