One has been there thru thick or thinand is more mature and stable,but can not commit. The other is willing to commit and go the whole mile from day one, but has not been around as long and is not as stable to back up their wants, but they have been waiting and hoping for a chance (In the mean time he has made steps to be a little more stable, with hopes that one day he will marry me.). HELP!!!!!!!!
2006-12-13 18:49:30 · 8 answers · asked by Ecala 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No your not a jerk and your not playing games. This has happened to me before, and it is hard. The trick is to not think too much!! And dont play them against each other, which is difficult when you have feelings for both. This is VERY hard to do. Dont form serious relationships with either yet, because by the time you change your mind, youll lose both of them. Just try to relax. Focus on other things in your life, focus on building up YOURSELF and making YOU a better person, because when you do get in a relationship, you will be a better individual for a better partnership. Good luck and God Bless.
2006-12-13 20:08:55 · answer #1 · answered by Christines256 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your heart will lead you to the man that you are meant to be with!
One way to figure that out is by not talking to either one of them for oh a week or two and see which one you absolutely miss the most, which one u just can't bear to be without anymore and that shall be your answer.
Please don't take into consideration stability and all that right now, those things will come with due time and sometimes people need a little bit of motivation to make them possible!
Best Wishes in your search!
2006-12-13 18:54:34 · answer #2 · answered by nkkidw040602 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
18 is too early to fall in love. You should wait to meet Mr Right. or take time to understand both first.
2016-05-24 00:31:24 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are they and how old are you. Do give everybody a chance to prove themselves. Dont rush. Time is the best factor. Just be friends and enjoy your life for the time being.
Good Luck
2006-12-13 18:55:22 · answer #4 · answered by sonisunny 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You must consider , second one , who is trying to be with you & taking pain to come up in life , for the sake of your love and company .
2006-12-13 18:54:24 · answer #5 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get both them in for a threesome
2006-12-13 18:51:28 · answer #6 · answered by a_bike_guy 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
follow your heart girl..
2006-12-13 18:52:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
test them!
2006-12-13 18:51:36 · answer #8 · answered by cutiegirlask 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋