2006-12-13 18:46:55 · 23 answers · asked by saurav s 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ethical?
An extramarital affair is never ethical. If one wants to have emotional and/or physical needs fulfilled, have a divorce first. That would free that person from possible lying, falsifying documents to cover tracks.
Prior to an extramarital affair, one must do her/ his best to make the marriage work. An open communication between partners is vital. Sometimes, communication is all that is necessary. This is the adult and sensible way of doing it. Open communication will also spare you the headache and heartache.
2006-12-13 18:56:07 · answer #1 · answered by tranquil 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
When you marry your loved one the vows you take are, for richer poorer, better or worse, sickess and in health until death do us part. Those vows should be taken seriously for if not, then this is not a proper marriage. One has to work through problems together, not just give up and go off with someone else, that is not love.True love, you will stand together through everything. It is not the case of physical demands, there should be no demand about it. The act of love making holds no demands, no one has the right to demand anything. Because one is married, they do not own that person, each one of you is still a person in their own right. Love making is about sharing your love with each other. If one partner can not or will not, thi problem should be shared between them both and things worked at toget the problem solved. By having an affair this destroys all love and trust that you portrayed to have had with each other soif that is the case., the marriage might as well end.
2006-12-14 00:59:28 · answer #2 · answered by rockandrollrev 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
There is nothing unethical in extra-marital affair if either emotional or physical demands are not meet by the partner .You will not this life twice. Pl. enjoy the life to your satisfaction.
Enjoy Life
Dr.Mojo
2006-12-13 20:48:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
The extra-marital affairs are unethical even if your partner is not able to meet your demands. However it is always possible to tell the partner what u expect of him/her. If even then he/she does not co-operate, u can go for divorce or threaten him/her for finding some extra-marital source. although it is unethical, but u can't be blamed for it
2006-12-13 19:34:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're that unhappy then you should leave your partner then you can look for what you need. The second you have an affair your crossing the lines of trust and there is never a good reason to do this.
All an affair would be is a quick fix. If you don't want to leave your current relationship then you should try to solve your problems together. counselling or just really talking would be a good place to start.
2006-12-13 19:10:24 · answer #5 · answered by CHRISTINE S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is not only unethical but morally wrong. Try talking and resolved all problems, but having an affair adds to more problems.
When someone is not in the right frame of mind because of marital problems, he or she is easily lured into having an affair. This does not help but rather will give more headaches. So think carefully before embarking into an affair.
Good Luck
2006-12-13 19:02:26 · answer #6 · answered by sonisunny 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
An affair is never the answer and I find them to be completely unethical! If you're so unhappy in your marriage I suggest some counseling for the 2 of you and if you still feel the same way perhaps it's time to consider a divorce.
2006-12-13 18:50:28 · answer #7 · answered by nkkidw040602 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If the demands aren't met by the partner, than you need to work on the marriage instead of giving up on it. You pledged to be with only them for the rest of your life; you are not only breaking that vow but you are taking the easy way out. Talk to your partner before giving up on them. Having an affair because your marriage is "not enough" means that you haven't worked hard enough on the marriage, and you are being completely immature in giving up on something that is supposed to be forever.
2006-12-13 18:51:39 · answer #8 · answered by contagisblondnes27 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
An emotional affair . from time to time the attention wanders and then delusion could kick in yet by no potential following with the aid of with the actual area. Its those thoughts that can kill or build a dating.
2016-12-30 09:36:07 · answer #9 · answered by santolucito 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not gud to have an extra marital affair....it effects the family ......n divorce is not the solution for all the problem, relationship were not ment to get divorced......just speak openly about ur problem with ur wife.....a problem can be solved when there is better understanding between the couples.......may be if u speak out ,ur wife might understand the problem .and sort it out with each others help....hope u will get a gud result.....all the best
2006-12-13 22:52:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋