was final...I could tell he was hiding from his family ( he lived with them at the time)...he says to me " I still think of you, I dont hate you").
Then at the court house the next day, he comes right up to me and sits next to me on the bench while we are waiting on the Lawyer to sign the papers. He is all joking around and acting like nothing was wrong. My entire guts were ripping out in pain though I didnt show it.
What was that all about? I never asked anyone....... seems like bizarre behavior from someone who wanted the divorce. I certainly didnt. His family was forcing him.
Then every time my old fiends would see him after the divorce he woudl make a comment about where I had moved... I moved to several states for work. ( it was awesome, none of them OR him ever left that town). I was really proud of that.
Then, a few yrs later he sees my parents and said that he regretted it and was sorry. TO THEM , NOT TO ME.
2006-12-13 18:28:17 · 9 answers · asked by SunValleyLife 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I dont think he has ever gotten over you.
2006-12-13 18:34:37 · answer #1 · answered by krunch 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WOw is that long. once you marry somebody with little ones under 18 that's what you would be able to desire to look forward to. because of the fact of this i'm purely getting married one time. i'm from divorced mum and dad that lived 4 hours aside. back contained in the 70s and 80s there have been no cellular telephones or texting. i'm particular it incredibly is a nightmare. My mum and dad have been civil to a minimum of one yet another for the main section yet there have been themes. What makes it undesirable for you is the daughter being a drama queen. She probable does unlike you and is going by using themes herself with the full divorce and step determine element. If she has a stepfather, which would be including to the project. the little ones can purely take plenty in simple terms because of the fact the step mum and dad can purely take plenty. i believe for you, i believe for the little ones. What a multitude. The little woman is probable hoping her mum and dad come back mutually if she is a drama queen approximately each little thing. It does shop her mum and dad in touch with one yet another. i replaced right into a multitude whilst i replaced into youthful. I hated my stepfather because of the fact he replaced into advise and so replaced into mom. Very advise. I bucked him on each little thing and made undesirable grades at school. i replaced right into a multitude like I stated. It saved my mum and dad speaking, nevertheless. i'm 40-one and married sixteen years with 2 little ones. 14 and 11. I swore from the minute I gave delivery to them that i wouldn't in any respect positioned my little ones contained in the direction of the hell of a divorce. For greater effective or worse, til loss of existence do us section. For the main section I actually have a good husband. I wish you luck in all this. whilst the little ones are 18, you no longer would desire to handle his discomfort contained in the butt ex spouse, to a definite element...........that leads to an entire different set of issues, grownup years of the little ones. illnesses, grandchilden, trip gatherings, etc.......
2016-10-05 07:19:10 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a man without a spine. Good for you that you got rid of him. If you really love someone, you fight for them. Talk about a jackass move to call you the night before only to act like nothing the next day. All he did was hurt you more by doing that. He sounds very selfish.
2006-12-13 18:37:18 · answer #3 · answered by Smart_ca_latina 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you didn't want a divorce, why didn't you talk to him?
His parents did not "force" him into anything! You both agreed to a divorce no one made you do it.
Get over it, move on with your life.
Good~Luck to you.
2006-12-13 18:43:22 · answer #4 · answered by ~*~Tessa~*~ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It seems he has never forgotten you. But being so weak and let his family interfering I suggest you let him go you deserve something better.
2006-12-13 18:39:30 · answer #5 · answered by maran 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that he let his family rule his life and now he's regretting it!!
Good for you, moving on with your life!!
2006-12-13 18:44:51 · answer #6 · answered by nkkidw040602 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he sound like a man who listen to he family that is not good!
2006-12-13 18:49:26 · answer #7 · answered by cutiegirlask 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a BABY boy, don't shed ONE tear. Honestly had you stayed you would have been shedding MANY. I wish you and yours much luck!
2006-12-13 18:39:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
looks like he never got over you.
2006-12-13 18:42:16 · answer #9 · answered by ~*Jenny*~ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋