i recently became sexually active and want to know more about premature ejaculation?

Answer 1

Premature ejaculation (PE) is the most common sexual dysfunction in men younger than 40 years. Most professionals who treat premature ejaculation define this condition as the occurrence of ejaculation prior to the wishes of both sexual partners. This broad definition thus avoids specifying a precise duration for sexual relations and reaching a climax, which is variable and depends on many factors specific to the individuals engaging in intimate relations. An occasional instance of premature ejaculation might not be cause for concern, but, if the problem occurs with more than 50% of attempted sexual relations, a dysfunctional pattern usually exists for which treatment may be appropriate.

To clarify, a male may reach climax after 8 minutes of sexual intercourse, but this is not premature ejaculation if his partner regularly climaxes in 5 minutes and both are satisfied with the timing. Another male might delay his ejaculation for a maximum of 20 minutes, yet he may consider this premature if his partner, even with foreplay, requires 35 minutes of stimulation before reaching climax. If intercourse is the method of sexual stimulation for the second example and the male climaxes after 20 minutes of intercourse and then loses his erection, satisfying his partner (at least with intercourse), who needs 35 minutes to climax, is impossible.

Because many females are unable to reach climax at all with vaginal intercourse (no matter how prolonged), this situation may actually represent delayed orgasm for the female partner rather than premature ejaculation for the male; the problem can be either or both, depending on the point of view. This highlights the importance of obtaining a thorough sexual history from the patient (and preferably from the couple).

Answer 2

First of all you're not experiencing premature ejaculation. Yes everyone up here would like to think that's what it is but technically it means that he would orgasm before having intercourse. This problem is more getting too excited and not being able to control that.... which by the way is pretty much standard with many guys. His ability to control of his orgasm through other means is also quite normal as a matter of fact some men can only have an organism through one type of sexual practice or position. Humans are, locked into doing certain things certain ways. Some stimulations especially intercourse cannot give him the control that he can use to other methods. If you move slightly that completely throws off his rhythm and it triggers his happy ending. Now he can learn to be more in control but you'll have to work with him. Having only try for a little while then quit, then a little more, until he's able to prolong this. It takes quite a bit of time to extend that and there will be plenty of mistakes along the way. There medicines actually on the way and a few being used to prevent premature ejaculation. In some cases these work amazingly well but not all doctors are into prescribing them compared to erectile dysfunction drugs.... but they're getting there. AdviceMan

Answer 3

Pre-mature ejaculation is an inability to control when you ejaculate. It can be caused by numerous things ranging from anxiety, stress, nutrition, and illness to something psychological in nature. PE is the most common sexual dysfunction in males younger than 40. The estimated prevalence rate of PE in males in the Untied States is broad... from 30-70% so, it's pretty common and if you have had this happen, you should know that you are not alone. Because of all the factors that can be involved, it's best (if you have PE) to discuss it with your doctor so you can determine why and how to specifically treat it. For more information you can always do a search; I'm sure there are sites that offer info, advice and support.
And since you have just recently become sexually active, remember to use protection as well!!

Answer 4

Wow that's a lot of intense answers, hope it doesn't scare you!
If you recently became sexually active, what you probably really mean by premature ejaculation isn't a "dysfunction," it's just that you don't have much experience, and aren't lasting as long as you'd like to.
There are ways to improve this while you gain experience and can connect to both your body and hers. There are certain sexual positions that tend to help you last longer. Try having her on top. When I started having sex, the reason I wasn't lasting very long is because I was getting way too into it, rushing toward the cliff if you will. If you put her in control, things will slow down a bit.
Masturbation: If you are used to trying to get off quick with masturbation, your body won't enjoy prolonged sensuality in copulation at first. Try slowing down there, forcing yourself not to get off for 15 minutes or something. That might help. Also, I found when I started having sex that masturbating immediately before hand on occasion desensitized me and helped me last longer.
All these shortcuts and quick-fixes are not desirable. Eventually you will want to be able to have sex in any position for a long time without worrying about losing it. If your partner is new to sex too, she probably won't be ready for an orgasm for a while anyway, so anything is premature. Focus on trying to make yourself last longer while she learns about herself and go from there.

Answer 5

I have been suffering from premature ejaculation for most of my life, but I found the most amazing invention to tackle this issue and since then I never looked back, and it is so simple. You can find the solution here ( http://prematurejaculation.kyma.info ) When a man is suffering from premature ejaculation, he is often climaxing before his partner and in the case of most men it is difficult if not impossible for them to continue intercourse after ejaculating. That's because chemicals are released when a man ejaculates and these are the same chemicals that make a person feel sleepy and/or not aroused. It’s not that they have suddenly lost interest, just their brain is telling them that the sex is over. This effect is more prominent after intercourse than after masturbation because intercourse actually causes four times more of these chemicals to be released. If premature ejaculation occurs frequently, it can lead to embarrassment for the man and sexual frustration for both partners.

Answer 6

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Answer 7

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Premature ejaculation is not some gene you're born with, the result of your penis size or a part of your personality that you can never change.

Answer 8

The Diagnostic Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM IV) defines premature ejaculation as a persistent or recurrent ejaculation with minimal sexual stimulation before, on or shortly after penetration and before a person wishes. Wow, that’s not a sexy definition. Personally, I define it as you come quicker than you or your partner wants. Luckly this is a great solution for premature ejaculation https://tr.im/770b8

Answer 9

I take paxil for it and its an anti-depressent. They work great for me because I can last longer up to an half an hour to an hour. Its common to men a lot more then you think. With time and experience things will get better. If not try to stop masterbating, or take some pills that your eurologyst recommends.

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