2006-12-13 17:45:58 · 19 answers · asked by nonstoppassion 1 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
love them instaed....dont expect other to do it to u..u do it to others..it will come back to u..
2006-12-13 17:48:41 · answer #1 · answered by L_n_C_fReAk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no formula. Be yourself and do what you do. Some will love you and others will revile you. It's just the way it is. To try and live your life just to have others love you is living a lie. You can't live life on the expectation of being loved. You have to live life for yourself. If you are happy with that life then it will show and others will be happy with & for you too.
2006-12-14 02:08:33 · answer #2 · answered by smilindave1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first you must ask yourself 'what is love'? this is the central question. once you have a specific answer to this question, then you can locate specific approachs and techniques to answer the "how" of the question.
perhaps another angle on the issue would help. the question 'what do you really want?', for example, may be more useful. is it a specific desire, can it be described, mapped, known in the abstract? or is it something unknown? if you want to be loved then you must loving but you cannot expect it. if you feel unloved, perhaps you should look inside before you look outside yourself.
please consider reading Erich Fromm's Art of Loving, a significant work on this issue of love.
2006-12-14 02:05:12 · answer #3 · answered by sardeeni 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Love people and they will love you.
2006-12-14 01:48:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What do you think you want people to do to you, so that you would love them.
Apply that to them.
2006-12-14 02:49:06 · answer #5 · answered by Reya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very simple. You practice love others and you will be surely loved by many. It is been clearly written love your neighbors as yourself then the results will be tremendous.
2006-12-14 04:47:27 · answer #6 · answered by george v 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love peoples they will love on return "as you want treat treat"
its an Egyptian tell
2006-12-14 02:20:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest ,sensebil,pure,clear ,and to start to love them..express for them by your honest way your love..not only by talking..No..you can do that by doing,helping them as much as you can..always do your best..its realy so wonderful to love and to be loved.. :)
2006-12-14 02:09:56 · answer #8 · answered by believer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest w/ yourself and people will either love you, respect you or both. Never be arrogant, people don't like that
2006-12-14 01:47:47 · answer #9 · answered by renee b 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
be your self
let yourself be vulnerable
be humble
let yourself be loved, in return give love
2006-12-14 01:58:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋