i met this girl about 2 months ago and we talked lots on the phone when we couldn't see each other. we weren't dating or anything like that, but we were just friends.
i got the feeling that she liked me as a friend and that she enjoyed having me around. the dead give away was that she kept asking me to do things with her and even invited herself to my house twice (but never turned up cos of work and her parents). and also told me that she wud rather go with me to a dance with her than her current date (not her bf).
a couple of weeks ago, we had a fight bcos i told her that i was starting to like her more than a friend (a mistake)... she didn't feel the same. then she said about a week later, she didn't want to be friends anymore and that we should go our separate ways. she said sorry that she's being naive bcos she's new to relationships (we r both 17)
this was our only fight ever. we got along so well together as friends, i dun wanna lose this.
2006-12-13 17:30:37 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Like you said you are young... use this experience to learn more about relationships, even if you have to talk to her again.. yikes such a loser have fun with that..
2006-12-13 17:37:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
SO what do u wanna do.....Beg her to take u back.....atleast as friends.....???
BE A MAN buddy.
Learn to stand up to ur decisions, emotions & feelings & back them with things that are congrugent to them. Dont be afraid of loosing people.
U said what u felt & what ought to be in any boy-girl relationship. But if she doesnt like it or does think its a sin, would that be ur fault???
If she refuses to speak to u then U dont have to strain to speak to her. Forget her - either she is way too naive ( even if she got to be ur gf she would have made u go mad) or is too smart & playing with ur feelings.
On both counts she has to go out of ur heart.
Best of luck budddy. Get up..Stand up..for ur right.
The right to like a person, to propose to a person is urs...& its no sin.
Stand up for it Be a man. & dont strain to speak to that girl at all.
just make new friends there are more fish in the pond than u can imagine.
Trust Me.
2006-12-14 02:03:04 · answer #2 · answered by jack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait a week and then call her. Be casual and say you are happy to be just friends. Then say maybe you will call her next week. Wait more than another week (absence makes the heart grow fonder). Wait at least 10 days. Then call again. Work it real slow if she will let you.
But if she still pulls away, leave her alone.
2006-12-14 01:33:43 · answer #3 · answered by moondrop000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋