Have you, or someone you know, ever suffered as a result of having done a friend, or family member, a big favour?
2006-12-13 17:22:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I had to drive to the airport to pick up my drugged sister and droved 400 kilometres to return her safely at home. In the process I had a very big fight with my supervisor for taking time out for this emergency and i spent $400 but no the whole episode was not appreciated. I nearly lost my job out of it.
2006-12-13 17:26:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
We probably feel that way because we can be hurt more when we do something from the bottom of our heart and it is not appreciated or it opens a can of worms. If we knew we did not to the right thing (just the thing that felt better) we will be better able to understand that we have gotten people upset at us and take our lumps.
2006-12-14 02:09:54 · answer #2 · answered by CAE 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it always happens. I think everyone above agrees. But isnt it a shame? Surely WE dont appreciate when someone does something for us too. I know I have been like that and it wasnt intentional.
I do find it hard not to take revenge though. I may be wrong but if you dont let them know they havent appreciated you in certain circumstances, they will start to take advantage.
2006-12-14 05:43:57 · answer #3 · answered by Mistress_T 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you put yourself on the line for them and they mess it all up. Like finding a job for a friend, and he doesn't turn up, looks really bad on you. Happened to me before, now I can't bring anybody in. Lesson learnt.
2006-12-14 01:27:01 · answer #4 · answered by Jazz 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2006-12-14 02:04:03 · answer #5 · answered by Amit n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it may b just as well to live by this little saying my old dear told me i swear by it and its soooooooooo tru..."god pays his debts without money"..u dont need to repay those who screw u over, with a kicking..the trick is to get on with your life knowing "him upstairs" will punish em 4 u,sorry iv waffled on but you get my drift
2006-12-14 02:41:46 · answer #6 · answered by greyhound mummy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes when you have done something that wasright it could turn out wrong on you, you dont excepect it to but sometimes it does.
2006-12-14 07:01:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yes and sadly, in my lifetime at least, I don't see them getting the justice that they so deserve.
2006-12-14 05:18:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No evil deed ever goes unpunished........makes more sense to me. Why would a good deed be punishable???
2006-12-14 01:26:10 · answer #9 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
True
2006-12-14 08:11:50 · answer #10 · answered by grayder 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋